Life has gotten crazy busy.

My oldest son and his girlfriend are heading here this evening, joined by a few of his 'old' college buddies who are driving in from Dallas. Tomorrow is his birthday and he's letting me celebrate it with him for the first time in years and years… well, since he left home for college. It will be a late night celebration, and simple. Just pizza and ice cream cake. But it will warm my heart getting to see him (briefly) on his actual birthday tomorrow.

However, come to think of it, it might only be his sleeping 26-year-old face I get to see; I have to leave for work relatively early and they'll probably stay up late tonight, which means they'll sleep in before heading out for another celebration downtown tomorrow night.

But I'll take what I can get and be grateful!

So… today I'm cleaning house. Not just a room here or there, but the whole dang thing, top to bottom. As soon as I finish with my writing duties, I'm going to put something energetic and old (like me) on the stereo… something like KC and the Sunshine Band or James Brown or Elvis… and become a dancing, singing, cleaning, whirling dervish.

I'm hoping to finish in time to drop in on a Christmas Bunco party tonight and visit with women I never get to see anymore before running back home to greet my oldest baby. Then there's work at the Bistro, a college graduation and more Christmas parties on this week's calendar, plus decorations and cards and photo editing and writing assignments hovering over my head. 

Which means something's gotta give, and as usual, it's sleep… enough that those little dark circles are appearing under my eyes.  I've also missed a couple of workouts this week because of extra jobs that popped up, blessings I can't turn down.

But please don't tell my mom – she'll worry. And don't tell my kids – I'm always nagging them to make sure they get enough sleep. Oh, they'd love to throw this back on me!

One thing I'm not cutting out – not yet, anyway – is my morning walk. Before it was even light this morning, Belle appeared at the window next to my computer, begging to get started. Max stood a few steps behind her… a black patch on the dark porch… and that was unusual; he usually lets her do the begging alone, happy to relax in his bed on the front porch until I step out the door.

I could hear the rain hitting the roof. I guess they were as relieved and excited by the steady, light rain as I was… and I was glad they were eager for a walk. Cool, rainy days are the most beautiful when you're out in them, wrapped in a warm jacket and protected from total drenching by an umbrella. Colors deepen – greens, browns, golds, rusts – and everything glistens, bedazzled in crystal drops. 

No photographs. It was too wet to risk my camera. Belle's begging at the window again now, though, and the rain has stopped. Perhaps I'll wander out with my camera before I get busy cleaning and capture some of the rain bling…

But then… that's why my house is so dirty. All those, "But first…"s.

Ah, well. I'll just go ahead and share a couple I took the last time it rained and get busy cleaning…

DSC_0312s (Medium)

DSC_0315s (Medium)

And now, I won't drag it out any longer. Here are the winners of the Shutterfly card giveaway… 

Congratulations to Hilary at The Smitten Image, Gail at Louisiana Belle and Walker at A Woman's Page! I'll send you each the codes for your free 25 cards!

I wish everyone who entered could have won. I really hate leaving people out and I loved hearing all of your sweet! moments. Thanks for sharing them!

 

Posted in , , , , , , , , , ,

9 responses to “Ssssh! Don’t Tell my Mom! (plus the Shutterfly winners)”

  1. Gail Avatar

    OMG! When I saw the title of your post I was content to come in and congratulate the winner! Congrats to me! I’m so excited!!!!!!!! Woot! Thank you, Barbara. πŸ™‚
    Happy birthday to your eldest. Hope he has a safe and blessed birthday. Enjoy these moments…

    Like

  2. eloise Avatar

    you know there are products now for those dark circles under your eyes. enjoy you time with your son. i know how you feel about the kids birthday, i always feel bad when i don’t get to see them on the day. just one of those times that you are reminded they are no longer your babies, they have flown the coop. it’s just so hard to let go completely.

    Like

  3. Hilary Avatar

    Thank you so much, Barbara. I almost never win anything.. this is cool. Thanks so much. And congrats to Gail and Walker too.
    It sure sounds like many fine things are coming your way. Happy Birthday to your boy. Enjoy! πŸ™‚

    Like

  4. Debbie. B. Avatar
    Debbie. B.

    Congrats to your 3 winners! I love Shutterfly. I think they will also. Happy Birthday to your oldest! Enjoy the short but sweet celebration with him. Love that his visit inspired a clean house. I need to find some inspiration to do that here! I have rain envy…I think we may get some here on Sunday/Monday. Hope you find time for some peaceful moments during your busy weekend.

    Like

  5. Pauline Avatar

    Love the rainy day photos and I promise not to mention your stay-up-late habits to either your mom or your kids. I have a feeling one look at those tell-tale dark circles and they’ll be onto you themselves πŸ˜‰

    Like

  6. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    I appreciate you keeping my secret – you're probably right that my mother would be on to me if she saw me, but I think my kids are oblivious. πŸ™‚

    Like

  7. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Ah, the busy weekend rolled on over into a busy week. My arthritic computer isn't helping. But I hope you got some rain this week – I think you did because my parents did. Would you believe my clean house is already a mess? Party + mud + puppy dogs in from the cold. Oh, well, it was nice while it lasted!

    Like

  8. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    You're welcome! You give out so much to everyone, I'm glad you won!

    Like

  9. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Oh, it was so good seeing my baby and he tolerated me making a fuss and taking pictures and everything, sweet kid. If you have any recommendations for dark circle disguising make up, please let me know! What I have isn't working very well!!

    Like

Leave a comment