I spent this glorious spring day with Tom and dear friends Shari and Robert driving through the hill country… ooh-ing and ah-ing at fields of bluebonnets, hiking up Enchanted Rock, and eating in Fredericksburg. I'm sunburned and dog-tired, but happily so. (Pictures to follow… you can probably imagine how many I took!)

I have to give Tom credit for spotting this single Bluebonnet growing right in front of our house. For some reason, bluebonnets are rare down in the Hollow. One year we tried to plant some, but as I told a friend, the birds must have eaten the seeds and pooped them out elsewhere.

Thank you to whatever bird planted this bluebonnet standing so tall and proud, like a true Texan…

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I just love it!

…"Proud Texan" leads me to this next photo that some guy named Steve Redman posted on Facebook. It's spreading like wildfire… at least among my Texan friends. I have no idea where he got it, but I love it, too.

Texas, not Texas by Steve Redman

Yes, we do think like this. But we also laugh at ourselves for thinking like this. Does that help make us a little less obnoxious?

"I have said that Texas is a state of mind, but I think it is more than that.  It is a mystique closely approximating a religion.  And this is true to the extent that people either passionately love Texas or passionately hate it and, as in other religions, few people dare to inspect it for fear of losing their bearings in mystery or paradox.  But I think there will be little quarrel with my feeling that Texas is one thing.  For all its enormous range of space, climate, and physical appearance, and for all the internal squabbles, contentions, and strivings, Texas has a tight cohesiveness perhaps stronger than any other section of America.  Rich, poor, Panhandle, Gulf, city, country, Texas is the obsession, the proper study and the passionate possession of all Texans." -John Steinbeck, 1962

"If a man’s from Texas, he’ll tell you. If he’s not, why embarrass him by asking?" – Travel writer John Gunther, The Best of Texas.

 

And now for more sweet! moments of the past week…

 

Saturday: your Mama's tuna fish salad; watching basketball with your Daddy; bluebonnets and Indian paintbrushes on a hillside at sunset; the smiles on your puppies' faces when you arrive home after a road trip

Sunday: driving empty highways at 4am to retrieve your daughter from a 22-hour bus trip; a great sermon; a red-tailed hawk, soaring through the hollow; watching movies with your daughter before she heads back to college

Monday: a bluebonnet growing in the Hollow; ducks gliding across a pond; four-year-olds discovering patterns and pretending to be airplanes and kitty cats; walking familiar halls after years of absence

Tuesday: knowing your puppies are indoors, safe and sound, on a stormy morning; a glimpse of more ducks through the trees, even though they fly before you can snap their picture; a call from your father-in-law, letting you know he's out of the hospital 

Wednesday: a walk before dawn, the Big Dipper ahead of you and a glimmer of sunrise behind; no line at the post office

Thursday: lunch with friends; coming up with a good excuse to drive downtown for a daughter hug; watching ducks fly away from you, even though you didn't have time to snap their photo (again!)

Friday: reading Othello aloud with high school seniors; a (mostly) clean house, just in time for the arrival of sweet friends; sitting around a bonfire with friends under a sky full of stars, talking and listening to a rushing creek

Saturday: fields of Texas wildflowers; sharing the view from the top of Enchanted Rock with friends; real German Reuben sandwiches

What were some sweet! moments of your week?

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18 responses to “Texas and other Sweet!s”

  1. lisleman Avatar

    While in the Air Force I enjoyed time living in San Antonio and visiting New Braunfels, Padre Island. I don’t care for stereotypes and I’m sure you have heard there is one about Texans that’s not so nice. You don’t seem to be one of those “Texan woman-folk”. I disagree with a few bits of Texan politics but we don’t need to go there.
    “a bonfire with friends under a sky full of stars” – now that’s a good place to go to.

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  2. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    What? There's a stereotype that Texans aren't nice? Full of ourselves, maybe, but I've never heard we aren't nice! And what are Texan women-folk supposed to be? I proudly come from a long line of strong, independent women, all born in Texas. I can't imagine that's a negative thing.
     Don't worry about the politics… I disagree with a few points of it, too! 
    I love the New Braunfels area, although it's grown a lot since you were there, probably. Not necessarily a good thing.

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  3. lisleman Avatar

    I’m certainly no pollster or authority but I’ve heard it said that women’s rights is not strong in Texas. I’m a little short on the right words to describe it. More of the be true to your man type of thing. The man is in charge and “his” woman should follow him.
    Strong independent – very good traits to follow. Of course you did have a woman governor not too long ago.

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  4. Jennifer Richardson Avatar

    i love all of the sweet awesomeness
    happening over here:)
    can’t wait to see your
    daytripping photos!
    -Jennifer

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  5. Suldog Avatar

    I never trust anyone who deep down, in his heart of hearts, doesn’t have at least a little bit of love for where he’s from. Hell, they crucified Jesus in Israel but He still loves it.

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  6. Ursula White Avatar

    Thank you for visiting Barbara.
    This is a great blog although I have to admit that I know very little about Texas, although it seems to be a big place 🙂 But then I am very proud of my own country too.
    I love your sweet moments I shall have to have a go at them myself; being aware of them and remembering them makes them so much sweeter.

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  7. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Texas is REALLY big… although not as big as Alaska. So many different types of landscape. I'm right in the middle and love it. I'm glad I've influenced you to keep track of your sweets! You won't be sorry!
     

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  8. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Great point! Thanks for not minding my Texas pride!

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  9. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Thanks, Jennifer! I took so many it's overwhelming (as usual!)
     

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  10. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    I guess that might be true in some places, but it hasn't been my experience. I've always taken the nontraditional route, though… chemical engineering, welder's helper, chemical plant operator/technician. Tom was a "house husband" for awhile when the boys were young. And my mom always worked outside the home. My friends are all very independent, too. Yes, we had Ann Richards awhile back. I didn't agree with her on many issues, but I admired her spunk. 

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  11. Lady Fi Avatar

    Your spring is full of so many sweet things! Love that bluebonnet.

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  12. Kathy Avatar

    As someone who’s been accepted into the “sisterhood of Texan women” as that “New York Texan,” I have to say that I’d put our “New York state of mind” up against “Texan pride” … almost. Texan women seem to get on with things, are straight shooters (literally) and don’t take too much sass from other folks. Wait. Isn’t that something you can say about women in general? I’d like to hope so. We don’t have bluebonnets, though. PS If y’all haven’t read Laura Bush’s autobiography, you’d like it.

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  13. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    I think you're right, Kathy… that description fits all women in general! And you may not have bluebonnets, but you have all that magical snow, and I'm sure plenty of gorgeous wildflowers of every hue! Thanks for the recommendation of Laura's biography – I truly admire her and know I would enjoy reading it.

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  14. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    I think you're right, Kathy… that description fits all women in general! And you may not have bluebonnets, but you have all that magical snow, and I'm sure plenty of gorgeous wildflowers of every hue! Thanks for the recommendation of Laura's biography – I truly admire her and know I would enjoy reading it.

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  15. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    I am truly enjoying our spring weather, but I have to admit, it lacks the magic you have there!
     

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  16. JillsyGirl Studio Avatar

    We have plants scattered around our yard that we have to give credit to the birds for. Some are in spots that are totally out of place, but we leave them. It’s funny, but they’re always so healthy, more so than the ones we baby! We even had a cactus when we moved in and it grew to quite a nice size until we did some new landscaping and it was in an area we wanted a stone patio. I didn’t even know that cactus could live in this area!

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  17. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    How funny! I didn't know cactus would grow there either!! 
     

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  18. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    How funny! I didn't know cactus would grow there either!! 
     

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