Category: Me and Him

  • …makes a great pot of chili! A cold front dropped in for a visit this weekend and has decided to stick around for a few days, so Tom and I took advantage of it tonight and made our first pot of Winter 2010 Chili. We made a great team – he browned the meat and…

  • It's not a good idea to stay up late, late, late Sunday night working at the computer when you need to get up early, early, early Monday morning for work. So now you know how my Monday started…with bloodshot eyes and plenty of yawns and scrambling to be on time. When will I learn? I…

  • Sometimes it's those things that are right in front of us every day that we take for granted the most… I'm grateful for many things, but I'm especially grateful I'll be seeing him again later today!  I'm praying for safe travels for Tom and others who will be on the road or in the air over…

  • Young love, young bodies. Before pregnancy and childbirth and knee surgeries and varicose veins. Before car wrecks and hernias and headaches and heart stents. When there was… …enough money… …enough energy… …enough time for all of our dreams to come true.   Man, how time flies! But, you know… Our love might not be young.…

  • Tom and I did it. We finally dressed up for Halloween after so many party-pooper years. Now, mind you, we didn't spend a lot of forethought on these costumes… But today I was grateful that I'm a procrastinating hoarder; I was afraid I had thrown away the shoe box full of Halloween makeup, a collection…

  • Alone. Lonely. These words popped up a lot this week, in different voices, from different places. I know I take Tom for granted sometimes – these voices reminded me how very lucky I am to have such a wonderful partner, companion, lover…someone to talk to, laugh with, hold my hand, wipe my tears, listen to…

  • That's what I told Tom the other day, when we opened the package from my friend containing a ziplock bag of Lime Pepper. She had seen my post and picture of him cooking Tilapia and wanted to share her favorite spice and recipe with him. I thought my joke was funny: "Cook me some fish, Man!" I loved that…

  • I caught a glimpse of the blushing horizon through my window this morning… a soft orange-pink glow just above the tree line, so similar to the sunrises that greeted me the past three mornings, except they reflected on the shimmery surface of of the Gulf of Mexico and led into days of sun and fun…

  • When I walked in the door yesterday evening, Tom was pulling a bottle of Tabasco Sauce from the refrigerator. It was Hot Wings night. I mentioned in another post how I'm fighting those nasty debt demons; I didn't mention how Tom is fighting them, because he deserves a whole post of his own. What does…

  • Twenty-nine years ago today, I fell in love with Tom. I didn't realize I was falling in love. I thought I was just having fun. I was 22 years old and 5 years deep into a dead-end relationship with someone else. A relationship that I knew was dead-end but still couldn't break loose from –…