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Gray skies accompanied me and the pups on my walk this morning, but they didn't reflect my thoughts for a change. Even though I'm missing Tom, it's been easier for me to focus on my blessings lately…just in time for Thanksgiving!

Because of that, I was able to appreciate the soft gray sky and the balmy breeze. We've started the Texas Winter Dance…two steps forward, one step back. If I haven't lived here all of my life, and I hadn't been watching the weather forecast warning of a cold front headed our way, it would be easy to believe we were skipping right over Winter and right into Spring.

Lately, I'm doing a better job taking each day as it comes…actually, each moment as it comes…and being grateful for it, all by itself, rather than as just another stepping stone into the future.

I confess I've had a little help from Mother Teresa with the attitude adjustment. Along with my coffee in the quiet house every morning, I like to read something inspirational or reflective – just bite off a small piece and chew on it till the next morning.

A few days ago I started re-reading her book No Greater Love. The effect on me is like throwing open the windows to let in sunshine and fresh air. If you haven't read it, I encourage you to, no matter what your beliefs. I believe her wisdom and insight go beyond religion, and there's something in her words for everyone. Her Christianity is plain, but she's not preaching. Of course, I'm a Christian, so maybe that's just my perception.

I'm including the section I've been chewing on today, so you can see for yourself…

"Always be faithful in little things, for in them our strength lies. To God nothing is little. He cannot make anything small; they are infinite. Practice fidelity in the least things, not for their own sake, but for the sake of the great thing that is the will of God, and which I respect greatly.

Do not pursue spectacular deeds. We must deliberately renounce all desires to see the fruit of our labor, doing all we can as best we can, leaving the rest in the hands of God. What matters is the gift of yourself, the degree of love that you put into each one of your actions.

Do not allow yourselves to be disheartened by any failure as long as you have done your best. Neither glory in your success, but refer all to God in deepest thankfulness.

If you are discouraged, it is a sign of pride because it shows you trust in your own powers. Never bother about people's opinions. Be humble and you will never be disturbed. The Lord has willed me here where I am. He will offer a solution."

Okay, I guess she does mention God in there quite a bit. But her words do encourage me – I hope some of you find encouragement in them as well, and the others aren't offended.

To lighten this up, here's a little Thanksgiving humor, courtesy of my friend Cheryl…(I'm grateful for my crazy friends…) 

Turkey
Moo
Suntan
Hope you're having a wonderful, reflective, peaceful Thanksgiving week.

 

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10 responses to “Gray Skies, Love, and other pieces of my morning”

  1. Walker Avatar

    I like the quote from Mother Teresa’s book. I was raised as an Episcopalian, but I believe in a more universal God, the God of all our faiths.
    I was particularly struck by the comment on discouragement as a source of pride… I’m not sure how I feel about that one. I get what she means but I think we are given power almost like free will but not power in the “P” sense. Thoughtful stuff.
    As for your time of solitude, don’t you find that the time apart gives you a great sense of appreciation? You are fortunate to have someone in your life like your husband!
    Happy Thanksgiving

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  2. Deb Avatar

    Gorgeous post Barbara! I have not read “No Greater Love” but will look for it the next time I am at Chapters …sounds amazing ♥ Wishing you a Blessed Thanksgiving.

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  3. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Thank you, Deb! Yes, I highly recommend it – it's one I need to read over and over (I need lots of reminders!) Hope you have a blessed Thanksgiving, too!

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  4. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    I agree with you on the discouragement/pride statement – that one made me stop and think. I'm still chewing on it. Yes, I'm very fortunate to have Tom – that was a lucky day when he stepped into my life and I'm glad I was smart enough to hang on. But we both recognize we need space from each other!! Hope you have a wonderful Thanksgiving, Walker!

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  5. Sally G. Avatar

    Thank you for bringing this book to my attention Barbara. I tend to read something inspirational before drifting off to sleep ~ taking the wisdom with me as a I drift and letting it permeate throughout while I sleep. My local library has 4 copies and all are out right now. I have a Hold on one now and I know it will show up exactly when I need it.
    For me, the Discouragement as Pride comment speaks to times when we put our own planned outcomes ahead of Thy Will Be Done. I take it to mean that when we work towards certain end-goals, and they don’t work out for whatever reason – then Trusting that the way it worked out is best at that time keeps you open and in the moment to opportunities and alternatives that you simply can’t see when you’re so focused on making something turn out the way YOU want it to.
    I’m also not attached or aligned with any particular religion – but have spent significant time in the realm of Spirituality. Seeing the world through eyes of Appreciation and Wonder can bring joy, happiness and peace beyond imagining.
    As for time apart from spouses ~ my husband and I both enjoy the space created for appreciation of the other when a temporary separation takes place. (Like, poker weekends or ladies weekends, that kind of thing. I’m the one that goes on the Ladies Weekends – or there’d probably be a different form of separation involved.)

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  6. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    You're welcome, Sally! I think you're right about the discouragement/pride thing – I believe it's okay and natural for us to have a certain amount or type of pride, but of course "pride cometh before a fall" – there are 'wrong' kinds and amounts, as well. (I hear you on the Ladies Weekends!! lol)
    Let me know when you finally get a chance to read it.

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  7. calvertgina Avatar

    Just in time, Barbara. Been working on my own “gratitude adjustment”. Love the excerpt from Mother Teresa. Hope you have a happy Thanksgiving!

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  8. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    I just read yours and left you a comment!! Hope you have a wonderful Thanksgiving.

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  9. Jillsy Girl Avatar

    I stopped and pondered on this statement…Do not allow yourselves to be disheartened by any failure as long as you have done your best.
    As long as we have done our best, there really can’t be a failure. Maybe for others, but not for ourselves. At least, we should try and look at it that way.

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