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Pink clouds, pink skies have greeted my ascension to the dirt road the past two mornings … a nice change from the woolen grays and mist that have been waiting up there for me lately.

I've noticed that a pink sky or one filled with clouds that look dipped in pink-orange paint lighten my heart and make me feel like anything at all is possible that day, and even if the day doesn't turn out quite as great as I thought it would, the memory of that sunrise gets me through it.

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"The King's Speech" is an awesome movie! If I had ten thumbs, they'd all be UP! You'd think a movie about a speech therapist and his patient would be boring, but this one kept me hooked the whole time.

There are no glitches in the screenplay whatsoever – it flows so smoothly you forget it's a movie! The acting , photography, dialogue, everything … flawless!  

Add a pre-movie dinner with dear friends, a bag of fresh movie popcorn and a few pieces of chocolate, and you've got yourself one fantastic Wednesday night!

Well, I had myself one fantastic Wednesday night, anyway…

 

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Hubby's having surgery for a deviated septum tomorrow morning – the result of his accident back in '98 wherein his face was split open and this amazing plastic surgeon welded his nose back together.

We're hoping the surgery helps with Tom's headaches. Please say a prayer for him.

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Life is unfair. I already knew this, of course, but I had a fresh course in the lesson today. Briefly… a couple of years ago a dump truck slammed into my sister's car. I mean slammed, as in he wasn't paying attention and didn't see that she'd had to stop and he didn't apply any brakes at all.

Miraculously and thankfully, she wasn't hurt. But instead of checking to see if she was okay or apologizing, he immediately started trying to squirm out of the blame – his business was at risk, after all.

Well, thank goodness witnesses were around and he had to pay for the damages, etc.

His trial finally came around today, but the prosecutor (a volunteer! have you ever heard of that?) didn't present the accident report or bring up the fact that the driver's insurance had paid for my sister's car. He didn't have any evidence ready at all – he just used my sister's photographs!

To the jury it was a "he said – she said" case, so I can't really blame them for finding the guy not guilty, I guess. But shame on the driver and shame on the prosecutor. And let this be a warning to all of you in Houston that thanks to the prosecutor and the jury, this guy is still out on the road. It makes me wonder how many other cases go through the court system like this, where a volunteer prosecutor doesn't feel a case is worth the time it takes to do it right.

 

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Remember Mam-ma's piano?

It turns out my mother isn't that eager to get rid of it – she just wants it out of her livingroom, but didn't want to impose on anyone by asking us to move it back into Mam-ma's room. (deep sigh.)

So next time we're there, we're moving it. And I've asked my mom to make a list of everything else she would like done – I think I've convinced her we'd love to do whatever we can and help out however we can and it would make us happy and we won't feel imposed upon at all.

But I might have to come out with a "you never let me…!" to get my way. (It always worked when I was growing up!)

 

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Okay, what the heck is up with mascara these days? Is it just me? I have tried every brand, every type (within my budget, that is) and no matter how much they proclaim not to clump or flake, I can't find one single tube of mascara that doesn't do one or the other or both. This latest one I bought makes me look like Liza Minnelli, for goodness sake, it's so thick and clumpy, despite promises on the package to do neither. Any suggestions out there? 

 

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Today is my sweet friend Darla's birthday – Darla, my Secret Santa from last year, deserving star of "Late Love is from Heaven" and gracious hostess of my best birthday party ever, and I missed celebrating with her tonight because of another obligation I had to fulfill – attending a city council meeting, of all things.

Yes, instead of toasting my friend with a yummy margarita, I was sitting in a small room listening to small town politicians twist facts, but at least ultimately (thanks to an important clear-headed few and the democratic process) the vote went our way, which made me feel a teensy bit better about missing the celebration.  

And the margarita.

But just a teensy bit.

Happy birthday, Darla! I'll celebrate with you soon! (When you're over 50, it's okay to keep celebrating all year long…)

 

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And now here are a couple of videos I feel the need to share. The first is "Phoenix Burn" by Alpha Rev, a group from Austin. It's just the lyrics set to music – I couldn't find a real video. Sorry! But the song has been haunting me for a few weeks – thank goodness it always lifts me up! But I love these lines: 

I wanna push through the undiscovered
Find my answers, leave them uncovered
I wanna speak out what I believe in
That love will heal us, give us our freedom
I wanna see what's on the horizon
Change directions, stop the fightin
I need to find a way of letting it go
When everything falls apart…

 

 

And this is one Tom just showed to me – it's a single dad and his daughter. Guaranteed to put a smile on your face! 

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11 responses to “Pink Skies, Random Thoughts”

  1. Kim McCormick Avatar
    Kim McCormick

    If you want very natural looking results, Shu Uemura makes a great mascara. The trouble is, L’Oreal is pulling the product from the US market this year, so if want to give it a try, you would have to order direct from them: http://www.shuuemura-usa.com/_us/_en/makeup/mascara.aspx
    If you want more dramatic results, Dior Show will thicken and lengthen without clumping. It’s an excellent product.
    I have been using Bare Escentuals Buxom Mascara lately and I love it. Kind of a mid way between the Shu Uemura and the Dior in the results.
    Hope all goes well for Tom. Sorry to hear he still suffers the migraines. I know full well how bad they can get.
    Hugs, Kim

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  2. An Authentic Life Avatar

    I am a long time Great Lash gal, but recently picked up a tube of “Falsies” – the new one in the purple tube…and I LOVE it!!
    Give it a try. Easy on the budget as well.

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  3. Sally G. Avatar

    Wow – you just took me to so many places in a relatively short period of time!
    The sunrise shots are BEAUTIFUL. Thank you.
    For reasons not entirely clear to me, I do not enjoy sitting through movies. I watched many when my daughters were small (didn’t want to deprive them of an experience just because I wasn’t keen on it – and my Inner Pollyanna actually enjoyed most of the movies we saw), but have seen relatively few since. I did see previews on tv for The King’s Speech – and recall thinking that if I WERE to see a movie, that’s probably one I’d choose to see. Thank you for confirming that.
    I’m sending many prayers Tom’s way. I can’t dwell here – a split open face? My heart can’t take it.
    Several years ago, a van t-boned me in an intersection while the driver was risking a left turn in hopes that no cars were travelling through. As it happened ~ he couldn’t see around a truck, so he took a chance and just booted through. I had the misfortune of driving through the intersection at the allotted speed and my car was destroyed. (It wasn’t exactly a T-bone impact, or I’d have been seriously injured as well. Fortunately, I did brake (the skid marks are there to this day)and he smashed into my front tire area instead).
    He was also found Not Guilty ~ though his insurance did cover my rental vehicle, etc. I was NOT allowed to show pictures of my car before and after impact, nor was I allowed to speak much at all. He accused me of speeding – and tried to imply that I, was indeed, at fault. (He was driving his wife’s van at the time – and it was also her ‘work vehicle’ … plus with the craziness of insurance up here in Canada — NO ONE wants something like this on their record.)
    The police officer who WAS allowed to speak presented a TERRIBLE case, convoluted information, could not answer questions directly and basically confused the Judge to such a degree that she rendered Reasonable Doubt and dismissed the case. (There was no jury.)
    It is very likely that these scenarios happen more often than we want to know. I am sorry for all the time your sister had to give away as a result of the Truck Driver’s negligence though. I feel her pain.
    The Piano. I think the meaning you took from that at the time is still of value. Though it is often funny when we find out the ‘real story’ behind situations in retrospect.
    Shortly after my second daughter’s birth, my older daughter stopped sleeping in her bed, choosing instead to sleep on the floor. The ‘floor sleeper’ was 18 months old at the time – and I now laugh at all the reasons I suspected might be triggering this odd behaviour. (And when I say ‘slept on the floor’ – I mean, without blankets, without pillow, without a soft foundation of any kind.)
    Was it trauma from reading Goldilocks and the 3 Bears? Did she feel less deserving or perhaps need more attention because there was now a baby in the house? Did she find a spider or some other creepy crawly in her bed and reject beds as a result?
    Turns out, she just wanted to be like her little sister – who was only a few weeks old and slept on a firm surface with no pillow and no blankets. Ha! I learned it’s best not to make assumptions – but I still tend to attach my own meaning to all events that surround me.
    And finally, the mascara. I use this one by Maybelline – doesn’t clump, doesn’t flake, washes off easily and really thickens my lashes and makes them look great. It’s approx. $10 here in Canada (at WalMart) – so perhaps around $8 or $9 in Texas? http://www.maybelline.com/images/products/thumbNails/500VEC_xl.jpg
    I realize now that I should have listened to the videos as I typed this. I’ll have to come back and listen to them another time. Tempest Fugets!!

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  4. linlah Avatar

    Many good thoughts for the surgery. As for the mascara, I’m makeup challenged I buy CoverGirl in a red tube, that’s all I can remeber when I go to the store. I’m screwed if they change the color of the tube.

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  5. Brenda Nowicke Avatar

    I have to say a little in defense of my volunteer prosecutor. The system is lacking, but he was diligent and did the best anyone could have done in his situation. The city’s legal department should have had everything (evidence, witnesses, etc.) lined up and ready for him. He shows up on his volunteer day and is presented with a case. He has no way of knowing what it will be and no time to gather any information from sources not in the courtroom. He saw the file for the first time and met me literally minutes before the trial began. I was his only resource and he was most grateful that I had brought evidence, since the city’s legal department hadn’t bothered. After it was over, he also told me I was an excellent witness!
    The way they run the municipal court system, it’s a miracle if a case makes it to the point of a jury trial and a crapshoot as to what the outcome will be.

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  6. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Okay, I figured I had some of it mixed up – I'll switch my 'shame on the prosecutor' to 'shame on the city's legal dept.'!! And kudos to the young prosecutor for volunteering his time. But it's still a very flawed system with lots of room for improvement if justice is going to be served. You're just such a Pollyanna (and you know I say that with the greatest admiration and love!)

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  7. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Thank you for the good thoughts! They helped – he's home resting and mostly free of pain (for now, anyway, but we'll take what we can get!) And you're doing better than me on the mascara – I can never remember what brand or type I've used before! I'm going to have to create a spreadsheet or something, I guess, on the ones I've tried!! I'll look for the Cover Girl in red, though. Thanks!

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  8. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Well, I'll feel bad if you go see the King's Speech and still don't like it, but I think you might. It's such a character-driven story and really does just pull you in. I also love history, so that helped. But I love, love, love movies, so keep that in mind!
    Oh, the same thing happened to my son as happened to you – a truck turned in front of him and hit the right front end (my son swerved a little to the left to avoid him). Thank goodness my son wasn't hurt – maybe a mild concussion from the airbag, but that's it. And the driver came right out and said it was his fault and apologized – we didn't have any trouble with that one at all, except for the inconvenience of being out a car, having to replace it, and the scare of it all. It could have been so much worse! That cracks me up about your
    daughter! When I was little, I told a school counselor I wanted to eat dog food and she thought it indicated all kinds of crazy stuff, as you can imagine, but didn't directly ask my why. It was because my aunt had let my older brother and sister taste some (crazy kids) but said I was too little! So of course I wanted to eat some! lol Thanks for the mascara tip – that's two votes for Maybelline I've gotten and one for Cover Girl. I know you enjoy music, so I hope you do come back and listen!

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  9. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Thanks, KT! What brand are they? I know I've seen Great Lash, but can't remember. I don't think I've seen the Falsies yet.

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  10. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Thank you, Kim! I'll add these to my list. What I have now is by L'Oreal and it is just way too thick without separating! Tom's home snoozing relatively pain-free right now – anesthesia will wear off soon though, I imagine!

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  11. Spanisheyes Avatar

    Loved this post!!
    The photos are beautiful..
    Can’t wait to see the movie…
    I wished I would have known about Tom’s surgery before! Hope he is doing well by now!
    Yes, what happened to your sister was UNFAIR!
    You are a good daughter…
    A good friend also!
    I understand why you like that first song so much…
    I sure smiled with the father-daughter video…
    Yes, I certainly enjoyed ALL of it!!

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