Tomorrow is Valentine's Day.

Tom and I celebrated early with a walk through the woods with the puppies, where odd things caught my eye, like this branch and its shadow against the aged cedar tree…

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and this colorful cactus…

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And then on the road headed home, Tom spent a few minutes trying to free a fossilized shell from its caliche prison.

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(More on that adventure later, but isn't this a cute photo of my Valentine?)

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We moved in slow-motion, mesmerized by the blue sky and sunshine and warmth, physically and mentally exhausted from the weekend.

We played ping-pong, drove into town, stopped for a quick meal at Panda Express and hit the grocery store.

Perhaps that doesn't seem like much of a celebration. It's nothing extraordinary; we often spend our days this way.

But isn't that what love is all about? Those thousands of moments that blend together into a single heart … one giant heart that beats for each of you, pulsing to the rhythm of your lives, setting the tempo, ensuring your steps match each other's even when there are times you can't be together?

We've never gone overboard with huge Valentine's Day celebrations, but especially after this past weekend we understand how precious each moment we have together is, and that it's the simple, quiet, every day moments that say "I love you. I'm glad you're mine." louder than any box of candy or corny, dusty Garfield statue ever could…

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(Garfield is pretty cute, though. Happy Valentine's Day tomorrow , anyway…)

This is my contribution to week 6 of Focus 52 – "‘Love, baby’! L-O-V-E!" Click HERE to see the other contributions.


 

 

 

 

 

 

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15 responses to “Love is Life”

  1. Julie Avatar
    Julie

    That is what I am talking about…the comfort in knowing each other and not having to PROVE anything!!! Love is grand and love grows with time…cannot be bought! Keep the love going my friends…It does my heart good to hear your stories of ordinary days!!!! Love it!
    Happy Valentine Day and hugs to you both……tear, tear….happy tears of course…..

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  2. JenZnewlife Avatar

    I agree, all the little moments show your love more than something you feel you “have to” do because “they” say you must. We celebrate our love each and every day by choosing to be together.

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  3. L² Avatar

    Beautiful post and photos Barb…HVD to you both!

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  4. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Thanks, Lynn! And a HVD back at both of you!

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  5. Ladyfi.wordpress.com Avatar

    Lovely lovely shots! I’d like every day to be one of love and joy!

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  6. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    That would be nice, wouldn't it? I'm afraid I wouldn't appreciate them enough, though!

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  7. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    That would be nice, wouldn't it? I'm afraid I wouldn't appreciate them enough, though!

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  8. linlah Avatar

    It’s always the simple things that mean the most and make the biggest difference.

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  9. Jillsy Girl Avatar

    The gifts normally are forgotten, but the moments last forever.

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  10. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Very true (except for that gorgeous gold ring of yours!)

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  11. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    I agree. The big things are nice, but without those smaller everyday ones they're just empty tokens.

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  12. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    I know you, more than most people, know exactly what love means. Thinking of you and sending hugs! Hope you have a noneventful, wonderful Valentine's Day with your Valentine!

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  13. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Wonderful way to look at it!

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  14. Spanisheyes Avatar

    Loved the photos and the post. Yes, that’s what love is about…
    being there everyday as one. Pepe and I are the same way, no lavish gifts needed!
    I wish you both many more Valentines walks together!!

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  15. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    And I wish the same for you!

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