Wake at dawn with a winged heart and give thanks for another day of loving.

~ Khalil Gibran

I rose early to see a loved one off on a tough adventure, with a prayer that their perseverance pays off… either that or that they learn to be flexible if things don't work out the way they want.

I've learned one of the keys to happiness is flexibility – no road stays straight and you have to learn to handle the curves. But wouldn't life be boring otherwise?

While the morning was still soft, I walked with the dogs to a small pond nestled in the hills. I wouldn't want to swim in its murky, brown-gold water, but for them, it's an oasis in this dry hollow. Tom told me our pond only has about 10 gallons of water left in it. Last time I wandered that way, I startled the the blue heron. I wonder if he's still hanging around? I doubt it. 

We still have wildlife around though. Every day Max and Belle team up for a Bunny Chase. Thank goodness they never actually catch them. Yet, anyway.

This hillside pond is down by a third of its normal size, but it's still deep enough that a turtle dove out of sight before I could snap a good photo of it. I took a few shots of the dogs, but they mostly just wade in up to their chins and then just stand there, happy for the cool water seeping into their coats.

Not as exciting or rare as a turtle shot. See what I mean?

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Until Belle gets out and wallows in the dirt. 

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I guess that's not so much exciting as just plain goofy. I've never seen a dog who loved dirt like she does. I swear she's part pig.

She just makes me laugh.

This past week was the tortoise and the hare for me, sprinting past but also seeming to take forever, full of emotional ups and down, highs and lows, questions, celebrations, tears, hugs and laughter.

It reminded me to take life one day at a time – one minute at a time if necessary, and to celebrate each and every one.

To be grateful. To stay flexible. To love and love and love.

I believe in love and its power to work miracles, don't you?

Now we've rolled around to another weekend. It's not going to be the one we planned but it's beginning to look like a good one, anyway. Daniel's home, and we'll spend time with friends and perhaps even get out on the lake before it completely dries up.

Oh, before I forget, here's my favorite photo of the week. On a walk last weekend, I spotted something yellow just off the road. I moved closer and discovered this…

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…a small colony of tiny cactus, barely visible among the rocks, boasting gorgeous blooms that towered above the spiny bumps. Most of the other flowers have all faded away because of the drought, but here was this beautiful, wild splash of yellow.

In all the years we've lived here, I've never seen these. I guess it's possible they've popped up and I just didn't see them, but they are so bold I believe I couldn't have missed them. The cacti are small and easy to ignore, just blending in with the rocks.

It's amazing to me that they bloomed so brilliantly in conditions that challenged the other flowers. In fact, it seems things have to get pretty rough before we're blessed with the best this tiny, easily overlooked plant has to offer. 

It's like that in our own lives – it's often during the worst of times or the biggest challenges that we discover hidden blooms, strengths or talents that have been dormant inside of us.

These little cacti remind me to be grateful for the rough times that force me to surprise myself with new blossoms… and that life itself is full of (wonderful) surprises!

 

 

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9 responses to “Wake at Dawn (and my Friday Favorite Photo)”

  1. calvertgina Avatar

    I like your phrase “while the morning was still soft.”
    And the picture of the cactus flower.
    As always!

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  2. Pauline Avatar

    Thank you for taking the time to read at my site and to leave such a kind comment. I often hear my mother’s voice even after all these years and it is indeed a comforting thing.
    You have much the same outlook on life as I do – “To be grateful. To stay flexible. To love and love and love.” Yes, yes, yes!
    Enjoyed reading here and will be happy to return.

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  3. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Thank you, Gina!

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  4. Juana Avatar

    Hi, Pauline!Yes,return to Barbara’s blog often. There is always something to smile about with each post. She is a great person, a great friend, and a great writer!
    I have been blessed with her friendship for almost a year now, and hopefully for many years to come!

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  5. Juana Avatar

    Oh, that dog-pig of yours makes me laugh!
    Amazing cacti… I don’t think I had ever seen yellow blooms on them. I could see you thinking, what’s that over there? Let me check it out! Then… click, click, click…
    Flexebility = Survival

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  6. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    So sweet! I agree – hopefully many years to come!

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  7. Gail Avatar

    Those blooms are so beautiful!! They seem to be growing out of the rock. The contrast is awesome.
    The last part you wrote made me think about what I’ve been going through for the last 7 days with my son. He has chronic pain from a 6 story fall 11 years ago and went a little overboard with his pain meds. Okay, a lot overboard. I don’t know exactly how I was able to get through it all, but I did. And I discovered quite a few good things about myself and others. Thank you for this post.

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  8. Wolf Pascoe Avatar

    Your reference to flexibility and then your discovery of the hidden blooms reminds me of the Kenny Rogers song, The Gambler. I’m guessing somewhere in this blog you’ve probably written about it.
    “Got to know when to hold ’em, know when to fold ’em ….
    Cause every hand’s a loser, and every hand’s a winner …”

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  9. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Very good advice Kenny gave us. I don't think I've written about that yet – thanks for the idea!

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