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This is the book that was the beginning of the end.

Each evening for years and years, Daniel, TG and I would huddle around a book on the couch, taking the adventure together, a chapter at a time. I would read out loud, relishing the warmth of my two little ones cuddled up against me.  

Tommy had broken away on his own when he discovered the Goosebumps series in 3rd grade, devouring them one after another as fast as he could. Speed is addictive: he couldn't slow back down to our pace, savoring bites of the story, a little every day.

TG, Daniel and I were usually each reading something else as well on our own. But every night we'd come together for a special book. We'd take turns choosing it. This is when I introduced them to the Lord of the Rings, Call of the Wild, Black Beauty, Tarzan, Mrs. Piggle-Wiggle, the Wizard of Oz series… 

And then Daniel won a drawing in the school book fair. He got to pick any book he wanted, up to $15 value. We hadn't heard of the one above, but it looked promising. It had a cute cover, interesting-enough story line, and the kid on the front even looked a little like Daniel to me.

I didn't expect much from it, but I hadn't gotten through the first chapter before I felt jealous of the writing. The kids were irritated when I would stop reading in the middle of a critical scene to comment on some gem of a phrase or description. 

That, plus they didn't want to wait 24 hours to know what happened next. It was mutiny on the couch. What could I do?

They drew straws to see who got to read it first. Within a couple of days all three kids had finished it and I finally got my turn. I'm sure I was through it within a day or two, also.

There was no going back after that. We tried to rendezvous over a book a few more times, but they'd had their taste of independence: our Reading Hour fizzled to an end.

All because of Harry Potter.

With each new HP book, the scenario repeated itself… drawing straws, all-night reading sessions, keeping your lips sealed until everyone had read the book. (You could hear the sigh of relief after I closed the book – I was always last.)

Meanwhile, my kids grew and grew and grew. HP movies were made and we'd dutifully buy our tickets and watch them, but we were never satisfied. Admittedly, I always enjoyed them because I've never been able to remember details of books as well as my kids – they're harsh critics, let me tell you! I raised a fine litter of critical reader-geeks!

With that in mind, we didn't rush to be the first in line to see the final HP movie. It was one excuse, at least. Can you guess my other excuse? I hated to say goodbye. 

Yes, the book was finished long ago. I shed my tears back then, said goodbye to the characters, but I knew this movie was really the final goodbye to that era – an era of faces buried deep into books and kids who were shorter than me… of long summer days full of discussions about plot and character, good and evil. 

But I couldn't resist any longer – today I sat with my two twenty-something-year-old kids who'd known Harry and company half their lives… who'd grown up with Harry and Hermione and Ron… munching tons of popcorn and Milk Duds, reliving the last decade while watching the end unfold before me… the end of an era.

(Guess what we did after the movie? Dropped into Half-Price Books, of course!)

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And now, my Friday Favorite Photo, totally unrelated to Harry Potter. My crape myrtle is getting closer and closer to blossoming… I feared it had changed its mind due to lack of rain, but then I noticed this bud… I think it's going to make it!

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 Hope you had a wonderful, magical Friday!

 

 

 

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18 responses to ““The End” of an Era (and my Friday Favorite Photo)”

  1. Debbie B Avatar

    Si and I still need to read HP 5-7 and see those movies. We have them sitting on the bookshelf just waiting for time to read them. We won’t be seeing the final movie for awhile. I have to read the book first.
    I love that there is hope for your crape myrtle blooms 🙂 They are hardy little trees, hopefully yours will be full of blooms before you know it!

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  2. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    What are you waiting for? Normally I'd say go ahead and see the movies, but in this case, read the books first for sure.

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  3. Lady Fi Avatar

    Sigh… I’ve read the books and seen the film. Sad to say goodbye too. But then I remembered that I read the first book ten years ago when it first came out. The details are hazy. Hurray – I can read the whole series again!

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  4. Shrinky Avatar

    My brood also grew up to Harry Potter – always the book first – in later years we often had more than one of the same copy under our roof, being read (from hard-earned pocket money)!
    I miss those days our whole family made the trip together to see the movie.. that fell by the wayside several years ago (see my pout?). Now, they prefer to make the trip with their friends, they think it’s far too un-cool to allow me to escort them.

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  5. Jillsy Girl Avatar

    I never got into HP, probably because we don’t have kids.
    Lovely shot!

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  6. Bella Casa Avatar

    Ah…what a fun read today! Thank you for sharing this story.
    Jan @ BellaCasa

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  7. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    My pleasure!! Glad you enjoyed it!

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  8. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    I'm sure I wouldn't have started reading the books if we didn't have kids, but they were so good – she is really a tremendously talented writer! I didn't notice any kids in the theater yesterday – and it was full! lol

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  9. missing moments Avatar

    What a wonderful shared memory!

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  10. calvertgina Avatar

    My daughter devoured the HP books herself (she’s a little older than your kids) and my two littles ones couldn’t stay interested (and I’m just like you about remembering the details–that’s why we’re having to go back and watch from The Goblet of Fire on, before we watch the final segment).
    But we did do this with the Lemony Snicket Series of Unfortunate Events. They were FURIOUS about the movies! The story was all rearranged and edited. I don’t think they even went to see the last one.

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  11. Wolf Pascoe Avatar

    My wife started reading the books on her own, before becoming a mom. She got me into them, though I was more critical–really started admiring them after Phoenix, when they got darker. Now she reads them to our son. Again and again. They both love it. She says it’s the high point of her life. Her ambition is to get to the theme park in Orlando. She wants to ride a broomstick. Wasn’t there a TV program about this?

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  12. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    They definitely hooked me more and more, the older Harry got and the darker they became – and my kids were getting older and older, too, so they stayed hooked.
    I'm afraid the theme park will disappoint me (although that would be so much fun to ride on a broomstick! And if you're talking about Bewitched, remember she rarely if ever rode a broomstick. Twitching my nose to clean my house would be lots of fun, too!!)

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  13. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    My kids enjoyed Lemony Snicket, too, and I read the first one – we all totally hated the movie! Just don't understand why they have to change them up so much!

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  14. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    And one I treasure since they insist on growing up. 🙂

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  15. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Well, I think the only reason I can persuade mine to go with me is by paying! Yes, flat out bribery. But it works!! (Not sure for how long. Sigh.)

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  16. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    I'm thinking the same thing!!
    Have you read any of the Cornelia Funke Inkheart books? Very creative, too.

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  17. Gail Avatar

    I never did get into Harry Potter, but my daughter adores the series; both the books and movies. I can understand not wanting the series to end, though. I’ve been that way myself about characters in books that I’ve grown attached to.
    I’m surprised your crepes are just now blooming! Ours have been in bloom for a while now, even seeming to thrive in this ridiculous heat! Glad yours is going to make it.

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  18. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Well, I'm keeping my fingers crossed and trying to remember to water them. They looked pretty sad this morning – just beginning to open but that's about it. All of the ones around us are blooming – maybe it's because these are still 'babies' and haven't developed the root system they need for a drought like this. poor things.

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