My Friday drifted away from me. I had a tight grip on it but then next thing I knew it was gone. 

It was one of those impulsive days… the kind where I start one thing and in the middle veer off onto something completely different… where I get a lot of little things done but nothing much accomplished to speak of.

Despite the overall feeling of being stuck in Wonderland, there were two side trips I'm happy I made:

1. I played the drums. Only 15 minutes or so, but it's been weeks since I picked up my drumsticks. Again. I still sound like a little kid pretending to be a drummer, but it is soooo much fun.

2. I changed out my "Kids Pictures". There's this little Duncan Phyfe side table near the front door where I keep 7 or 8 snapshots of my kids when they were little in whatever season it happens to be… for instance, up until today, they were all holding brand new lunchboxes and looking spiffy in their favorite "first-day-of-school" clothes. Now they're all looking out at me so precious in their Halloween costumes, making me feel wistful and melancholy over how fast the years went by (conveniently forgetting how stressful it was trying to help everyone "be" who they wanted to be.)   Sigh.

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See what I mean? Just so dang cute! And so cuddly-little!

Years ago, when I first started changing seasons, photographically-speaking, on the side table, seeing these little faces reminded me that the teenagers I lived with at the time used to be sweet and lovable munchkins who liked to snuggle up with me while I read to them.

Now, some seasons, I actually slip in a few photos of them as teenagers because it reminds me of all the fun we had… because they really always have been fun kids. Well, mostly.

Sigh. 

Anyway… now I'm headed off for a long shift at the Bistro, but before I go, I want to share some other Sweet! moments of my past week… 

Sunday: finally making it to Barton Creek Mall; an afternoon with your daughter; shopping for hours and somehow managing not to buy anything; crawling in bed when you're really, really tired

Monday: a sunrise walk with your puppies; thinking of a sweet friend on her birthday; catching up on email – sort of; a clean bathroom and empty laundry hamper; knowing your sister made it home safely from a long road trip

Tuesday: joyful puppies; fluffs of pink-orange morning clouds; no lines at the post office; finding a package from a friend in the mailbox; finally making it to the grocery store!; a son who helps carry in groceries and put them away; jalapeno/swiss cheese hamburgers; listening to a cd of Peter Frampton's recent live concert while you work

Wednesday: more and more yellow flowers popping up along the road; lunch with two dear friends for the second week in a row; portobello mushroom tacos; finding tutorial videos on Photoshop Elements and actually learning a little bit; Modern Family's Halloween episode, even if it's a repeat

Thursday: getting $4 at Buffalo Exchange for a pair of shorts you paid 50 cents for years ago; finally getting the chance to take photos of the nuns on top of Toy Joy; a much needed haircut and re-blonding; thrift store Halloween costume shopping with your daughter; your son introducing you to another funny cable show (now on Netflix!); sticking to your guns about something; watching a teensy part of the World Series next to your sweetie

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Friday: autumn temperatures that stick around all day; beautiful skies; Belle grinning; a RealAge.com age 4.5 years younger than your real age; playing the drums; glancing through old photos of your oh-so-small-and-cute Halloween-costumed kids; getting rewarded (sort of) for sticking to your guns

Saturday: sleeping in; walking with your sweetie and the puppies on a brisk autumn morning; connecting on Facebook with one of your husband's distant Australian cousins who has the same name as your son

 

Hope you all have a beautiful Saturday!

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12 responses to “Halloween Memories and other Sweet!s”

  1. Walker Avatar

    I love the idea of changing photos… something I have never done! Can’t wait to try that.

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  2. Bella Casa Avatar

    I so love the idea of switching out photos like you mentioned in your post, Barbara. What a wonder keepsake and idea!

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  3. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Thanks! It's so much fun glancing through those old photos.

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  4. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    It's a great excuse to go through those old photos and mope about how quickly they grow (it's easy to forget all those challenging days and just remember the fun ones!)

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  5. Gail Avatar

    What a great idea on the photo thing! You are always thinking of the coolest things to do.
    Modern Family is so funny! Hubby and I love that show. 🙂
    If I go shopping I am coming away with something! I cannot shop and come home empty-handed. lol
    This weekend I cleaned out my closet and found a skirt I had bought at Ross for $9.99 probably a month ago. Knowing I’d never wear it I thought I would go back and get store credit or something. Turns out the skirt was marked down to 49 cents and that’s all they would give me! I kept it and put it in the good will pile with the tags still on… :/

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  6. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    That's all they would give you? Yikes! I just wore something yesterday I found on a clearance rack months ago and it still had the tags on, so you see how much of an accomplishment it was for me not to find at least one good deal I couldn't pass up!! lol You need to see if there's a Plato's Closet or Buffalo Exchange or one of those other stores that will pay you for certain items right up front. 

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  7. Jennifer Richardson Avatar

    playing the drums…SO very cool:)
    And your sweets! make my heart
    pitter patter….swooning over the beauty
    you find and celebrate!
    Enjoy these last sips of October,
    Jen

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  8. Shrinky Avatar

    What a joyful post! I adore that idea of those changing photographs, and yes, aren’t they so cute and cuddlesome? Oddly enough, I’ve been looking at my youngest recently, and seeing her snuggley, podgy, sweet-smelling, baby self in my mind (sigh), she SO loved her cuddles!
    Happy Halloween, dear lady.

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  9. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    I do the same thing sometimes – I can be looking at their 'grownup' faces but instead see their faces from decades ago (!) and it's all I can do not to talk baby talk to them! lol Hope you have a Happy Halloween, too!

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  10. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Those sips have almost dried up! Where did October go??

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  11. Spanisheyes Avatar

    Oh, your photos of the kids are wonderful! Such a sweet post-
    loved it.
    Happy that you always find sweet moments!
    And those nuns are just tooooooooo cute!!

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  12. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    They grow up too fast, don't they?

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