My sweet sister, the very one who is still recovering from hip surgery and lives daily with Parkinson's, found out this week she has glaucoma. To treat it and save her eyesight, she'll need to put drops in her eyes every day for the rest of her life.

Listen to what she told me about it: "I read that if you have blue or green eyes, the drops might turn your eyes brown! I've always wanted brown eyes! And another side effect is that it will turn your eyelashes dark and thick. So now I'll have beautiful dark eyes!"

That's my sister.

She lives her life playing "The Glad Game". Like Pollyanna, (which we call her!) she is always able to find something good in every situation.

It took awhile, but her optimistic attitude finally started rubbing off on me, and oh my gosh, what a relief it is to recognize those blessings that are tucked into bad news.  

Playing the Glad Game isn't just about helping ourselves get through tough times, though. The best thing about it is how your joy and gratitude is contagious. It might be just the inspiration – the shining light – someone else needs to find their way out of personal darkness… pain, illness, loss of a loved one, discouragement, anger, financial problems…

There's so much potential darkness in this world trying to blind us to all that we have to be grateful for.

"…give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God's will for us in Christ Jesus." 1 Thess. 5:18

I remember groaning when I read Corrie Ten Boom's description of the flea infestation in the concentration camp bunkroom, enough to turn their skin black when they entered the area to sleep, and I agreed with her that there was nothing about fleas to be grateful for. But urged by her sister Betsy (another Pollyanna-type, obviously), Corrie reluctantly told God thank you for the fleas.

When I read a little further how she realized it was because of the fleas that the guards wouldn't step foot in the bunkroom, allowing them freedom to hold prayer sessions and Bible readings and comfort each other through those dark days, a little light went on in my mind.

I'm grateful I was able to read their story – I'm grateful for that little light that now reminds me how, when something bad happens (and there are bad things – those fleas were bad!) God can squeeze something good out of the worst of things.

I'm reminded to give thanks in all circumstances, even if, like Corrie with the fleas, I'm not sure exactly why.

I'm still not as good with the Glad Game as my sister is, but I promise to keep practicing. I hope you'll play along. I think you'll like it.

Hope you have a blessed Thanksgiving!

 

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17 responses to “The Glad Game”

  1. lisa Avatar

    How wonderful it would be to always be good at this game.
    What a wonderful spirit your sister has.
    I wish you and your family a beautiful Thanksgiving Barbara.

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  2. Wolf Pascoe Avatar

    I never read the book, but I remember the movie with Hayley Mills as Pollyanna. In one scene, everyone was griping about Sunday (I think it was Sunday). They all challenged her to find something good about that day. Finally she said, “Well, it’s a whole week before it comes round again.”

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  3. Julia Atwood Avatar

    Hi Barbara,
    I just finished up my blog post for tomorrow and decided to stop by before I head off to bed. I am so glad I did. What a wonderful post. When it seems like some many things are challenging these days it is good to have people like your sister and the story of the concentration camp to put things in perspective. Thank you for sharing your sister and her light with us. Thank you for putting this out for us to consider.
    May you have a blessed an joy-filled Thanksgiving.
    Julia

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  4. Hilary Avatar

    A lovely post, Barbara. Happy Thanksgiving to you and yours.

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  5. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Thank you for your sweet comments, Julia. I'll share them with my sister! Hope you have a wonderful Thanksgiving!

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  7. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    I love that movie (I actually love all Hayley Mills movies 🙂 and remember the scene you're talking about. I read the books later (courtesy of my sister, of course!)

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  8. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Yes, she does have a beautiful spirit! I wish I was as good at the game as she is! Happy Thanksgiving, Lisa!

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  9. Gail Avatar

    This is such good, sound advice! Thank you!! This post is so inspirational to me in so many ways. Hope your Thanksgiving was filled with family, friends, food, and blessings!!!

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  10. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Thanks, Gail – I hope you were able to spend yours with family and friends and plenty of good food and fellowship!

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  11. Bella Casa Avatar

    Oh how I do agree …there is always sunshine if we just take the time to look.

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  12. Brenda Wilson Nowicke Avatar

    I’m glad I was blessed with Barb as my baby sister, and I’m glad that, through her talent for writing, she has made so many wonderful friends.

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  13. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    You're so sweet! 🙂

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  14. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Why is it so hard for us to take the time to look? 

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  15. Suldog Avatar

    God always gives us what we need. It may not appear so at the time, and we may curse because of it, but if we look hard enough we will always see the usefulness in whatever it is. I firmly believe that (although I sometimes don’t see the good stuff until years afterward, and thus spend time cursing when I could have been doing something useful.)

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  16. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    I agree with you but I do believe there are times we're never shown the usefulness – we just have to have faith God has his reasons… and also his own time schedule. Tough to do, though, and I spend too much time whining (or cursing!) myself.

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  17. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    I agree with you but I do believe there are times we're never shown the usefulness – we just have to have faith God has his reasons… and also his own time schedule. Tough to do, though, and I spend too much time whining (or cursing!) myself.

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