We let Max sleep inside the past two nights. Belle, too, of course, although it was more for Max's sake than hers. They have a large dog house, nestled up against the house and the hill, protected from the elements, but even though temperatures were just in the low forties Sunday night, it was bone-chilling damp and he's an old dog with sore joints.

So I found an old comforter and Daniel spread it in on the floor of the laundry room. Comfy cozy and warm.

Then yesterday morning I discovered Max isn't the only one with old achy, slow-moving bones and joints. The winter chill seems to be affecting my computer, too! (You thought I was going to say it was me, didn't you?)

Tom asked me to scan and email him some documents for our health insurance… would you believe it took me over 40 minutes to scan three photos!

Forty minutes to scan 3 photos!!

My old computer was moving so slow I knew I had to do something, so instead of finishing up the editing of my last photo shoot, as I'd planned, plus catching up on my blog reading, blog writing, book writing, personal history transcribing, etc. etc, I went down the list of installed programs, files and folders with a virtual pair of scissors, Googling the ones I wasn't sure about and getting rid of everything I didn't absolutely need.

Six hours and a couple of defrags later, I gained 3% of my free space back. It was still as slow as ever, but I still felt like I had accomplished something, like that feeling you get when you finally clean out your kitchen junk drawer.

You know, if you keep a computer long enough, and your entire family uses it, it essentially does resemble a junk drawer or storage closet… a repository of all kinds of odds and ends no one needs or uses anymore.

Anyway, I also finished up the editing of my last photo shoot and emailed them to my friend/client so she could get her Christmas cards ordered, although I had to stay up really late to finish it. It was worth it just to help her out… and also for that awesome feeling of finishing something!

It's a rare thing for me; I hope to get more acquainted with it!

The only thing I accomplished this past weekend was spending lots of time with friends and family… even though it means I'm behind on everything else, it was another awesome feeling! 

First came the celebration of my first baby Tommy's 26th birthday. It was just like his birthday parties in the old days: lots of pizza… ice cream cake… singing Happy Birthday off-key… kids sleeping over, staying up all night playing video games and watching movies…

…except this time the "kids" were drinking wine and beer, not just soda. My how time flies!

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Me and my sweet boy.

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After working at the Bistro Saturday, I rushed home, changed clothes and met Daniel and Tom downtown for Daniel's friend Austin's graduation from UT…

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Here, let me zoom in a little more.

See how happy he is?

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Afterwards, we joined Austin's parents and some of the boys' friends at Asti (above) for a scrumptious Italian dinner. We arrived a little early, so I filled the time strolling down the street, snapping photos.

Look, someone knitted scarfs for the street posts! (To see more of these scarves, plus other night street scenes, go HERE.)

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Sunday night Tom and I went to our church Christmas party. I look forward to it every year… we get yummy Rudy's Bar-B-Q and a wide open dance floor.

My idea of Texas heaven!

With the busy weekend, I neglected to check and charge my camera battery before we left. Of course it died before I could get any photos of the great dancers, but I did manage to get this one.

I want one of these shirts!

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I smudged their name tags to protect the innocent. (You're welcome, Joan and Sherry!)

It was a wonderful weekend, and I think I appreciated it even more because through it all I was praying for a friend who underwent surgery for cancer on Friday, a friend who lost his mother on Saturday, a high school classmate who died on Friday, and fellow parishioners who rushed from the Christmas party Sunday evening when they got word their house was on fire. It burned to the ground; they didn't just lose all of their belongings, but also their dog. Just breaks my heart. Please say a prayer for each of them.

So I hope you had a wonderful weekend, too… but mostly I hope you didn't take a single second of it for granted. 

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20 responses to “A Birthday, a Graduation and Texas Heaven…”

  1. Lady Fi Avatar

    Wow – talk about lots of ups (and a few downs)! Love the photos of your kids… Time certainly does fly.

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  2. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Yes, it does! I'd tell you to savor this time with your AB's but I know you already do!

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  3. Hilary Avatar

    Lots going on with you. You and your boy look like you could be siblings.. beautiful photo. And I love those t-shirts. Any idea where to find them?
    I’ll keep all of your hurting people in my best thoughts.

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  4. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Hilary, you are too sweet on that sibling comment, but thank you! I don't know where to find the shirts yet, but when I find out I'll let you know!!

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  5. Gail Avatar

    Whoa, so much packed into one post I hardly know where to begin. To the folks who lost their home and dog in the fire, my heart and prayers are with them. I can’t even begin to imagine… Computer woes are the worst, but compared to your friends’ devastation, puts it all into perspective, right? Barbara, you still look young and vibrant and it appears your boy has inherited your good genes. What a sweet photo! One to cherish forever. Love the tee shirt your friends are wearing! LOL!!!

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  6. brian Avatar

    nice…you had a weekend full of celebrations…happy birthday…happy graduation…hope the computer issues are not too bad…ack i hate those…

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  7. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    I think it's just toying with me. It's decided to speed up now just when I thought I should get to bed and start again bright and early – so I feel obligated to get as much done now as possible, while the going is good! It's just suffering from old age – I can sympathize. 🙂

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  8. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Yes, I probably should have made three posts out of this one! lol And yes, again, compared to losing my house and my puppies, an old arthritic computer isn't a problem at all. (And thanks for the compliments!!)

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  9. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Yes, I probably should have made three posts out of this one! lol And yes, again, compared to losing my house and my puppies, an old arthritic computer isn't a problem at all. (And thanks for the compliments!!)

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  10. Walker Thornton Avatar

    Sounds like a weekend with plenty of joy and that reminder that heartbreak is always around the corner.
    I love the photo of you and your son-my youngest is 26. Precious times.
    I totally understand the computer issue, so will hope you get by a bit longer with it!

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  11. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    It's behaving better today, thank goodness. Hope it can hang on till the first of the year!

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  12. Bella Casa Avatar

    Oh my…I too want one of those t-shirts real bad …not that I drink much or anything 🙂

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  13. beth Avatar

    your son is so handsome….and are you sure santa isn’t going to bring you a new computer….maybe 🙂

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  14. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    I'm pretty confident he's not!! But Santa can be pretty sneaky, can't he?

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  15. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Oh, me neither, Jan! 🙂

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  16. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Oh, me neither, Jan! 🙂

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  17. Otto von Münchow Avatar

    That was quite some celebration, wasn’t it?! By the way scanning pictures is indeed a tedious job. I have used one hour with only one picture… Fun to look through your pictures. Thanks for sharing.

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  18. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    It was a wonderful celebration indeed! So proud of those kids. Thanks for stopping by!

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  19. Wolf Pascoe Avatar

    You’re welcome, Joan and Sherry!
    Cracked me up.

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  20. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Well, at least I didn't give last names!!! 🙂

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