I'll be celebrating our country's birthday today by earning a paycheck at the winery. How much more American is that? 

But while I'm standing there listening to music, smiling and serving customers, sweating in the summer heat and hoping for at least a glimpse of fireworks, my mind will be drifting back to Fourths of the past.

So I decided to take you with me. The following is a repost from July 3, 2010. I hope you enjoy it and have a wonderful, sparkly, red-white-and-blue 4th of July!

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almost went to the Fourth of July parade this morning. If all the kids weren't home, or if at least one of them had been interested in going with me, I would have been sitting there on my usual curb when the heavens opened up and poured (not just rained) at 10am. For once, I was grateful to be inside the house, folding clothes.

Yes, I realize it's the 3rd of July, not the 4th, but our small town celebrates Independence Day BIG and needs all day, and a good bit of the night, to do it! There's a 5K run, followed by the parade down Dawn Drive and then everyone moves to Bar-K Park on the lake for booths, games, live music and, of course, fireworks right after dusk… consistently one of the best fireworks shows I've ever seen, too.

So I almost went, but realized that it just wouldn't be the same. It would be the first time I wouldn't have at least one kid to watch for, marching with the dance group, the swim team, the High School Marching Band, the Cub, Boy, or Girl Scouts. 

As much as I enjoy the parade, I don't have all three kids under the roof at the same time very often anymore, so I stayed home, and whew! I'm glad I did! 

The great thing about our country is we can celebrate the 4th on the 3rd… or the 5th… or the 10th. We celebrate it every time we vote, every time we write a letter to the editor or complain to our congressman. Or just by staying home and hanging out with our kids.

I still got my parade fix, though – I pulled out old photos of some memorable 4th of July celebrations. Much more fun than getting drenched at a rainy day parade! 

Paris, 1976 – toasting the Bicentennial with champagne and really missing the USA!

Paris 1976
 

Webelo Scout Tommy leading the parade with the Boy Scouts 1996 (he's the short one in the middle)

Tommy 1996
 

TG, right in the middle of her dance group float, 1996

Truck-1996

 

Daniel, ready to ride, 1999

Daniel 1999
 

Me, second from the left, marching with the Cub Scouts, waving to TG on the sidelines, 1998

Kendall, me, cub scouts 1998
 

The kids, waiting for the fireworks to start, 1999

Waiting for fireworks 1999
 

Tom curbside with nieces, nephews, brothers…  watching fireworks in Florida last year

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"You have to love a nation that celebrates its independence every July 4, not with a parade of guns, tanks, and soldiers who file by the White House in a show of strength and muscle, but with family picnics where kids throw Frisbees, the potato salad gets iffy, and the flies die from happiness. You may think you have overeaten, but it is the patriotism." ~ Erma Bombeck

Happy birthday, USA, and wishing you many, many more! I love you! 

 

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16 responses to “Ghosts of Fourths Past, Revisited”

  1. Hilary Avatar

    Sweet memories, Barbara. Wishing you and yours a safe and Happy 4th!

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  2. Brenda Nowicke Avatar
    Brenda Nowicke

    Your Erma quote made me cry. I think one reason I enjoy your blog so much is that it reminds me of Erma’s writing style. In case you didn’t realize it, that is the ultimate praise anyone could receive from me. XOXO

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  3. Gail Avatar

    Hope you had a good one despite having to work! Love the vintage photos. So sweet.

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  4. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    I did! I got to listen to music outside in a beautiful place and make money! 🙂 Thanks, Gail – I hope you had a wonderful 4th, too!

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  5. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    I do know that's the ultimate praise from you!! Thank you sweet sister! I love you!

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  6. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Thank you, Hilary!

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  7. Lissa @ lafcustomdesigns Avatar

    Ah, reminiscing is sweet. ;-> no excitement here for the 4th. You got rain, we had fireworks bans due to the high fire danger here. And we now have a smoky haze due to fires in Wyoming and Montana. Argh. Such is life..

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  8. lisleman Avatar

    fireworks seemed much better as a kid.

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  9. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Well, actually it's hot and dry here this year, but I still didn't go to the parade. It's just not the same when you don't have your kids with you! I didn't see any fireworks, but I heard them. We've had years where they were banned, too, though. I'm sorry it's too dry for y'all and ugh on the haze and the fires!! And summer has only just begun!

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  10. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    I think they're better for me now! But then, I don't remember seeing any when I was a kid! 🙂 The best fireworks have been when I have my kids with me.

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  11. Suldog Avatar

    Happy (belated) 4th! Bombeck was the best, wasn’t she? Great writer, sorely missed.

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  12. Wolf Pascoe Avatar

    Kids are essential on the 4th. I over ate yesterday, but am heartened to know it was the patriotic thing to do!

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  13. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    I'm glad I could make you feel better about it!

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  14. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    She really was the best and is truly missed. I used to read her column even when I was too young to understand it all, and now grab every book of hers I find on the resale shelves.
     

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  15. Juana Avatar

    Wonderful memories…. one gets nostalgic. And like you this year my husband and I had to work on most 4th of July´s while we lived in U.S.A. so we couldn´t celebrate it at home, but we really enjoyed how everyone else did.

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  16. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    I'm grateful I was working where I could watch everyone else and listen to music… and then get to eat some great food! 
     

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