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"Are you someone's grandmother?" he asked as soon as I walked into the classroom. I had to have him repeat it before I understood. My hearing isn't so great anymore plus he was missing his two front teeth!

"No, I'm your substitute teacher." I could feel the air fizzling out of my bubble…the 1977 fantasy world I'd been living in the past few days,where I'm perpetually 18.

High school reunions, surrounded by classmates and memories, can do that to you.

And all it takes is one little toothless cutie pie to send you crashing back to menopausal reality. Thanks a lot, kid.

I've been hanging out with second-graders the past two days, and before that, I was hanging out with a 50+ crowd who mostly behaved like teenagers. No better way to stay feeling young – even if the second graders like to remind you you're old enough to be their grandmother!

My high school reunion was a blast – at least in my opinion, and as far as I could tell, everyone else agreed with me. There weren't a lot of us, but we had enough fun to want to do it again soon. To heck with waiting every five years.

A few of us started it Friday night with a tour of our old high school. OMG! It was huge when we went there, but it's doubled in size since then. There's actually a branch of a credit union in the lunchroom, a coffee shop (run by students, I believe), a police department, and a culinary arts program with its own chef. Street signs mark hallways – I would surely get lost without them!

After the tour, a bunch of us watched the first half of the homecoming football game. The Fighting Deer were winning when we left, right after the new Homecoming Queen was crowned. As a former HQ, I felt obligated to stay at least that long before heading off to the big Pre-Reunion Party at my friend Rae's house.

Bless their hearts, this is the second time Rae and her husband Keith have opened up their home to all of us old renegades for a little casual ice-breaking before the dressier event the next evening. Another friend ordered matching t-shirts for all the women, making us official Deer Park Divas. 

At one point during the evening, Rae led me and Tom outside. The other Divas were already gathered there, and knowing how sneaky they are, I wondered what they had been up to now.

Turns out they pitched in and got us a paving stone decorated with the Air Force symbol, in honor of Pop. They knew Tom would appreciate that much more than flowers.  Ah, those sweet friends.

I'm embarrassed to say Tom and I were (again!) the last to leave Friday night… er, Saturday morning. We just hate for those nights to end!

 

 


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No more worries about forgetting your lunch money!


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 It goes on and on and on and on….



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See the splotches of white-out? Those are guys who popped their 'Stud Duck' hats on just before the camera clicked – after being told to take them off. The white-out comes right off. Isn't 35 years long enough?

(That's me on the bottom front row, the brunette between blonde Larry and brunette Gina-tay.)

 


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Chef Reggie


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Alumni who have made the school proud. (I'm not on there.)

 

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That's okay. I'm part of this special group! 

(For more images from the Homecoming football game, go HERE)



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Deer Park Divas!

 


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They are so sweet and thoughtful!



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Photo-bombing!

 

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Thanks again to Cindy for arranging the tour, Rae and Keith for opening your home,  Gina for ordering the t-shirts, Debra and the other Divas for the paving stone, and Sandy for taking over my camera so I could photo-bomb with Rae and Gina-tay! 

Oh, and happy 31st-anniversary-of-the-day-we-met to Tom! Thank you for asking me to dance!

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21 responses to “Reunion, Part 1 (and back to reality with a thud)”

  1. lisleman Avatar

    Your group is very close. I enjoyed my reunions but the classmates for the most part don’t know much of my life since school. Did you husband also go to that school?

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  2. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    For the most part, we don't really know anything about each other, either. We learn at the reunions and get-togethers in between! And Facebook has helped. No, Tom's just been around forever. At our first 5 year reunion, he made friends with classmates I didn't even know! I saw people at this reunion I haven't seen or talked to since high school.

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  3. Otto von Münchow Avatar

    Reunions can be great fun – or can be disastrous. I am glad yours was the former. And it really seems like you had fun. Leaving late – or early next morning – is always a good sign. And a sign that you are still young at heart, no matter what a little kiddo may think…

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  4. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Bless you! You always know just the right thing to say!

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  5. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Bless you! You always know just the right thing to say!

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  6. Wolf Pascoe Avatar

    And what on earth is a stud duck hat? I think I want one.

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  7. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    It's a hat that says "Stud Duck"! You could have one, too!! I wish I could remember the story behind the hats. Now I have to ask someone…

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  8. Ms. A Avatar

    These are great! Love that the dogs decided to get in the photo!

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  9. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    There are always a handful of dogs (and at least one cat) running around Rae's house. lol

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  10. Brenda Sitton Avatar
    Brenda Sitton

    Barbara: Thanks for the posts here an on Facebook. I really enjoyed the reunion Saturday night and know now that if I want to see everyone I should attend the party the night before. Looking forward to other events before another 5 years passes. I’ll definitely make the effort to attend.

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  11. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    I  hope so, Brenda! I didn't get to talk to you much again at the reunion. I was just thinking about that today! Yes, there's just not enough time in one night to make the rounds with everyone. It goes by way too fast!
     

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  12. silverneurotic Avatar

    I think it’s safe to say that your high school may just be bigger than my college.
    Glad you had a good time, guess some reunions can be fun afterall.

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  13. Gail Avatar

    Your school sure has a lot of perks now! Wow, a bank? Looks like y’all were a close bunch. Glad you had such fun. Loved the tour and the Diva shirts. Cute!

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  14. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    I think we're all closer now than we were then. We realize we're really strange, um, I mean, unique that way! 

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  15. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    I think it's bigger than the community college I go to (off and on), too! 

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  16. Lady Fi Avatar

    Sounds like a great time back there in 1977!

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  17. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    It was a very good year!
     

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  18. Suldog Avatar

    You damn well should be on the Wall Of Honor. Personally, I find you more entertaining than Andy Pettite. Of course, I’m a Red Sox fan, so I may be prejudiced.

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  19. Jennifer Richardson Avatar

    looks like soooooo much fun
    and you all look gorgeous…esp you, Barbara!
    time and joy have made you
    a seasoned beauty:)
    Deer Park…I drink your water!
    you guys are like a fountain of youth
    commercial:)
    -Jennifer

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  20. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Thank you, sweet Jennifer! We have wondered what was in our water, but only because we grew up on the Houston Ship Channel! 🙂
     

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  21. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    I've been out of town again and just now making my way through the comments. How sweet that you, a baseball nut, find me more entertaining than Andy Pettite, even if you are a Red Sox fan. Thank you!
     

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