…I met my son Daniel for the first time. Of course, it was love at first sight.



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With each passing year, I fell deeper and deeper in love with that creative, funny, compassionate, wise old soul.

How could I resist? Look at that smile! And that hair!

 


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But, dang it (and thank God!) kids grow up.

It's such a curse and a blessing. 

 


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So here I am, shaking my head in wonder that it's been 24 years since I first looked into those blue eyes. I just can't wrap my head around the number, but my heart overflows with sweet memories from each and every one.

And I'm grateful to still be adding to them.

He no longer lives at home – soon after I wrote last year's birthday post  he found a job and moved out on his own again – but he comes back for a weekend here and there, just to help Tom with a project, chill on the back porch with us, listening to music, or introduce us to some great obscure movie on Netflix.

I'll even get to wish him a happy birthday today in person. He'll be here when I get home from work. I'll stick a candle in a cyclops cookie and Tom and I will sing 'happy birthday' to him…and he'll let us, because that's the kind of sweet kid, um, man, he is.



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Happy 24th birthday, Daniel! 

May you have clear paths and bright skies.

And no matter what this year brings,

I hope you continue to "Be silly. Be honest. Be kind."  (Ralph Waldo Emerson)

 

Also… Happy birthday wishes to my sweet sister-in-law Kim, my young cousins Ashley, Kayce and Kayce's daughter, Tayvie, and my inspirational South African friend Pete! 

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18 responses to “Twenty-four years ago today…”

  1. Gail Avatar

    Awww, sweet post. Happy birthday, Daniel. My “baby” is 29 and whenever I see him, all I can envision is the sweet little boy who used to carry his blankie everywhere.

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  2. beth Avatar

    happy birthday to your birthday boy….
    isn’t it funny how twenty four years flies by….i see it happening all the time. dang it !

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  3. Ms. A Avatar

    “HAPPY BIRTHDAY, DANIEL!”
    I LOVE the cap and gown photo! Love it!!!

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  4. Joanna Avatar

    I know that Where has time gone feeling, Ashley turned thirty today!Happy Birthday, Daniel!!

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  5. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Wow, can't believe she's thirty! Give her a birthday hug from me!!

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  6. Brenda Nowicke Avatar
    Brenda Nowicke

    “Be silly.Be honest. Be kind.” …it’s as if Emerson knew Daniel. Great kid, great post!

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  7. pauline Avatar

    Ah – that was a sweet Sweet, a wonderful tribute to your son. Hope his birthday was a happy one.

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  8. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Thank you, Pauline! I think he did have a good birthday!
     

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  9. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    I agree! It's perfect for him, isn't it?

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  10. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Thank you! That was my first photo shoot. The ones we paid for at the school were AWFUL!!

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  11. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Thank you, Beth! It's funny how those early years seem to drag by, though, isn't it? 🙂

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  12. Suldog Avatar

    Happy Birthday, Daniel! And Happy Birthday to YOU, Momma! By the way, love the new photo on the sidebar. Lovely.

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  13. Lisa Gordon Avatar

    What a beautiful post this is, Barbara.
    Like you, I am not sure where the time goes. My kids turned 23 and 24 over the summer. Most of the time, it seems like just yesterday.
    HAPPY BIRTHDAY DANIEL!!

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  14. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Thank you, Lisa! I guess that's the magic of motherhood, that we never truly lose the little children we had even though they grow up. Happy belated birthdays to your two kids!

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  15. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Thank you and thank you and thank you!
     

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  16. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    I think they always stay all of those ages in our hearts, don't they? I bet that's what drives them crazy! lol
     

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  17. Wolf Pascoe Avatar

    I look forward to the day when my kid (10) will introduce me to a movie on Netflix. But it makes me sad to think about it.

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  18. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Looking forward to something, and being sad about it at the same time. Oh, the torment of being a parent!

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