I almost didn't publish this post.

Late this afternoon my sister called me at work to let me know Daddy was heading to the hospital via ambulance again. Another suspected stroke. Even if I had the time to post my collected sweet!s of the week, it just didn't seem right when I had such a heavy heart.

I made plans to leave for Houston early in the morning… and then Brenda called again with news I hadn't even dared to hope for: Daddy had checked out just fine and was on his way back home. Hallelujah! Talk about answered prayers!

I gave Mama and Daddy time to get home and settled before calling them. Hearing Daddy's voice on the other line was the sweetest sound ever.

So now I'll share what I had thought was the biggest sweet! of the week… 

I went dancing last night!

It was our annual church Adult Christmas party where we're one of the youngest couples, there's enough space on the dance floor that we're not getting bumped and elbowed all the time, and there's a group of ladies who love to dance as much as I do, so poor Tom is off the hook. (One of them, a spitfire in her 70's, did a full body shimmy to Proud Mary that would rival Tina Turner's! I have so much to learn!)

I also wanted to share a great quote I came across earlier this week…


Great is the art of beginning, but greater is the art of ending.

~Henry Wadsworth Longfellow

 

I can't help but believe Longfellow wrote it with me and my writing in mind.

And now for a few more sweet! moments I collected this past week…

 

Saturday: watching Princess Bride for the one zillionth time with your kids

Sunday: a Sunday spent at home, not out of town or at work; sleeping in and going to late Mass for the first time in months; finally having time to dust and vacuum your filthy house; your kids hauling your boxes of Christmas decorations upstairs for you before they head back to their own places; a call from a dear friend

 

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Monday: getting paid to hang out in a library all day; finishing up a project (well, almost); dredging up the willpower to work out after work; an email asking about using one of your photographs in a newsletter

Tuesday: seeing deer dash in front of you on your morning walk; your old puppy running after the deer; finally making it to a doctor after rescheduling twice; getting your flu shot; helping your daughter shop for a tacky sweater in an eclectic resale shop; finding an authentic Scottish wool kilt for only $10 in the same shop; joining your husband and most of your kids for happy hour at Double Dave's; grocery shopping with your daughter

 

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Wednesday: moonlight splashing in your kitchen when you first get up;  watching the moon set on the horizon on a chilly morning; the shimmer of frost; finally shushing the negative voices in your head and making progress on your book; dreaming about winning the lottery

Thursday: morning walks three days in a row; getting started on your book easier; helping your parents get the paperwork together to dispute the penalty for filing for Medicare Pard D "late" (why is there even a penalty??); saying to heck with to-do lists and deadlines and meeting friends for dinner

Friday: working on your book before heading to work; helping four-year-olds pick out books for their Book Fair wish list; hugs from four-year-olds; a check for one of your photographs waiting for you in the mailbox; a husband who doesn't make fun of you for crying in a movie about aging dogs

Saturday: french toast, a la Tom; time for a morning walk before work; slow dancing with your husband; teaching others how to do the Cotton-Eyed-Joe 

Sunday: sunlight through stained glass; talking photography with customers; answered prayers; your daddy's voice; Christmas lights on your tree, thanks to your husband

 

I hope you are remembering to keep track of, and give thanks for, your sweet! moments!

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22 responses to “Sweet Relief”

  1. Gina Calvert Avatar

    So glad you got a reprieve on your Dad’s health. You continue to blow me away with all that you accomplish! I need to come sit at your feet and learn how to do life with your grace and style!

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  2. Ms. A Avatar

    Nice, full list! So glad it was a false alarm with your Dad!

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  3. CRJen Avatar

    Glad everything is okay with your Dad. That is sweet indeed!

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  4. Agnes Avatar

    So glad your Daddy is fine Barbara, what a relief!

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  5. kelly Avatar

    So glad you had such good news. And yes, savoring all the sweet moments of life!

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  6. lisleman Avatar

    paid to hang out at the library – sign me up.
    dancing – nice. I’ve reach the point of not being self conscious about my off beat dancing.

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  7. Suldog Avatar

    Great news about your father. Also, great list of “sweets” this week. I can relate to an awful lot of them (except I would be the one crying in a movie about aging dogs, grateful for A WIFE who wouldn’t think any the less of me as a man.)

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  8. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Tom was probably crying, too, but I was too busy wiping my eyes and nose to notice. And of course I would only think more of him (if that were possible! 🙂 I'm not surprised you'd be crying!!

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  9. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Isn't sad it takes us so long to quit worrying about what we look like and just have fun? So much wasted time!

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  10. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Thank you, Kelly!
     

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  11. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Thank you, Agnes! Yes, it is!
     

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  12. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Thank you so much, Jen!!
     

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  13. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Me, too!! Thank you!
     

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  14. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Oh, Gina, you're one to talk!! I don't know how you do all you do, especially with teenagers in the house!

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  15. Gail Dixon Avatar

    Gosh, Barbara, I haven’t been on FB or perusing blogs as much lately. So sorry to hear about another episode with your dad. But at least this one was quick! Another great list of sweets. I admire your loyalty to this each week. 🙂

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  16. Barbara Shallue Avatar

     
    Thank you, Gail! But it's so therapeutic, I can't stop! lol
     

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  17. Hilary Avatar

    What a roller coaster. I’m glad your Dad is doing better than expected.

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  18. silverneurotic Avatar

    I’m glad that your Dad is okay, what a scary phone call to receive.

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  19. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Yes, it was, especially after all we've just gone through with him!

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  20. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    I think he's just worn out and still recuperating from his surgery!! (I hope that's all!)
     

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  21. Wolf Pascoe Avatar

    I read all your sweets carefully this week. Last night one of the men in my men’s group said, “Stop beating yourself up with ideas about fixing yourself and just do something you enjoy.” I admire how you never seem to forget to find things to be grateful for.

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  22. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Ah, I won't say I don't forget. I started my sweet list because I needed that reminder!

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