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I can't believe it.

I surprised my friend Darla with a Diva gathering in her honor at my house this past weekend. Ten women who graduated from high school with us piled into my house for a slumber party, one even driving from Louisiana to be here. Many more who couldn't attend still donated money for a Williams-Sonoma gift card.

It feels good to pay her back, even if it was just a drop in the bucket;  she has been a huge cheerleader for my writing and photography for years and has given me so many sweet birthday surprises I can't even count them anymore.

Her husband was in on it, of course, along with about 50 high school girlfriends who have been private-messaging about it for months. Considering that, it is truly amazing she didn't catch on, isn't it? (If she did, she needs to consider a career move to the stage!)

There were tons of tiny sweet!s while they were here, but I'm not going to share them all because…

 

 
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Hehehe.

That little plate was a hostess gift from of those dear friends, along with the Diva wine coozie above and this cork holder below. Sweet!



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And now for more sweet!s of the past week…

 

Tuesday: rain tap-dancing on my umbrella; finally completely cleaning out and organizing your old roll top desk after thinking about it for five years; finishing up an editing job for a recent photo shoot; the gratitude of outside puppies who are allowed inside on a stormy day; hanging out at home all day with your baby girl

Wednesday: a second day of rain during a long drought; working in a high school library with a view of the mist-covered hills; watching new episodes of Modern Family with your daughter



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Thursday: a second day in the high school library but with a view of sunny skies; student dioramas of The Hobbit; plotting a surprise party for a dear friend

Friday: a day of errands with your daughter, even if it's just getting her flu shot, stopping at Chick-Fil-A, and grocery shopping; your daughter's help getting your house ready for guests



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Saturday: your baby girl's smile lingering in your heart after you drop her back off at college; laughing in the kitchen with forever friends; pulling off a surprise birthday party for a dear friend; hostess gifts; pineapple martinis and mini-Monte Cristo sandwiches; a husband who will drop what he's doing to take a photo of you and your girlfriends; slumber parties, at any age



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Sunday: hanging out in your pajamas for hours, yakking with girlfriends; chilling on a rock with your dogs and camera in the middle of the woods on a crisp winter day; writing groups; not getting upset when the edits to your blog post disappear, meaning you'll have to start all over

Monday: a glimpse of the Great Blue Heron just after dawn; working with special needs kids all day; a call from your sister and text from a friend; the fire in the wood-burning stove starting easily 

 

Despite the sweet! moments of my past week, there were some tough ones, too. Our community lost two awesome people in unrelated incidents. I considered both of them friends, but so did almost everyone else around here. I'm really, really going to miss their faces and still have a hard time believing they have passed from this world.

Rest in peace, Mary and Frank.


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16 responses to “Surprise! and other sweet!s”

  1. lisleman Avatar

    you have great friends and strong bonds. BTW – I linked up that re-post of yours.

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  2. Ms. A Avatar

    Sorry for the loss of Mary and Frank.
    That’s a nice lookin’ group of divas!

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  3. ladyfi Avatar

    So sorry to hear about the loss of your two friends.
    Meanwhile, your Diva weekend looks awesome!

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  4. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    It really was. I'm so grateful for those women!
     

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  5. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    I think we look pretty good for a bunch of aging Divas!!
     

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  6. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    I am very blessed! I'll go check out the link up. Thanks!
     

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  7. Gail Avatar

    Y’all are a lovely group, so happy and full of life. So sorry for the loss of two special people. 😦

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  8. Rae Sinor Avatar
    Rae Sinor

    Barb….Who are Mary and Frank? I’m so sorry for your loss! Thank you for opening up your home for us Diva’s…..AGAIN!!! I love the Hollow…WIsh I would have had more time to visit and take a walk with you and the Puppies! Tell Tom THANKS as usual for putting up with us! Much love always!!!

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  9. Rae Sinor Avatar
    Rae Sinor

    OH DARN! We forgot to talk about broken china…..Darn it!

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  10. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    I forgot!!! I know I have some stashed somewhere. Tell me what it's for!
     

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  11. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Mary was the high school secretary/sub coordinator as well as the #1 fan of all the kids at the school and #1 volunteer. She was smart, honest, and selfless and will truly be missed. Frank was our former police chief. Really a sweetheart. I wish you could have stayed longer. I took the puppies for a long walk – it was a glorious day! I'll tell Tom…he doesn't mind. He loves all of you, just like I do!
     

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  12. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Losses are easier to take when you have a net like this to catch you and hold you up and remind you of the joy in life!
     

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  13. Nancy Avatar

    How awesome that you kept in touch all these years. What fun for you all — girls just wanna have fun I guess. 🙂

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  14. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    I think so! The best, and probably most amazing part, is that most of us weren't even close in high school, but have developed close relationships in the years since then. Especially in the last 5 years.

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  15. Wolf Pascoe Avatar

    Sounds like a heavenly week. Just reading your sweets cheers me up.

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  16. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Heaven with brief forays into hell, as all weeks tend to be. But thank you, and I'm glad my sweets made you smile! Hope your week is filled with them!
     

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