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Five Things (A Day Late)

 

I intended to post this last night. You know, "Five Things on Friday" – that catchy alliteration thing.

Instead, I went dancing. 

So here are my "Five Things on Friday, on Saturday":

 

1. Did you watch the Grammies? I did this year for the first time in ages. So I was even more jealous that my kids got to see the grammy-winning band "Fun." in Austin two nights later! (Is it okay to be jealous of your kids?)

2. I was raised Baptist, but converted to Catholicism more than 15 years ago after about 15 years of contemplation about it. Pope Benedict XVI's decision to resign earlier this week came as a huge surprise. However, I respect him for stepping down if he feels he isn't physically able to do the job anymore.  It's unusual, as far as tradition goes, but I'm not worried about the Church and don't anticipate huge changes.

3. I received another "sorry, you aren't our choice for this job" email.  It was for an administrative assistant position that didn't pay much. I replied with my thanks for letting me know, and asked if they could tell me why I wasn't chosen, in case it was something I could change and increase my odds with the next application. I was told the "chosen one" has a bachelor's degree and more years of clerical, accounts payable, and customer service experience… which tells me they must be at least as old as I am, but they're still scrambling to find a job and are forced to resort to low-paying positions, despite years of experience and a bachelor's degree.  Which means I'm screwed in the job department, if that's my competition. (No, I'm not giving up. Just whining.)

4. THE WEDDING is coming up fast! I need to find a good mother-son song for the reception. Any suggestions?

5. I came across a fortune cookie fortune in my purse. I have no idea where it came from, but I love what it says: "In the providence of the mind, what one believes to be true either is true or becomes true." Do you agree or disagree?

I hope you've had a wonderful Saturday!  

 


Feb 13-0080
 

Five Mexican Jays, keeping an eye on the Hollow

 

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17 responses to “Five Things (A Day Late)”

  1. ladyfi Avatar
    ladyfi

    That is a lovely shot!
    Sorry to hear about the job though.

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  2. Nancy Avatar
    Nancy

    So sorry about the job thing. I know it must get discouraging.

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  3. pauline Avatar
    pauline

    Go here (http://bridalmusings.com/2012/09/mother-son-wedding-dance-songs/) for some mother/son song suggestions.
    Don’t be too discouraged about finding a job. Just keep applying and one day you’ll find the right one.
    I agree with “In the providence of the mind, what one believes to be true either is true or becomes true.” It reminds me of the Anias Nin quote: “We don’t see the world as it is; we see it as we are.”
    There’s research that says once we decide to believe something, not even proof of our mistake will convince us otherwise.

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  4. Renee Ethridge Avatar
    Renee Ethridge

    Barbara,
    I so enjoy reading your blog! I appreciate our common good friend Rae introducing it to me. I love the analogy and or the fortune cookie, messages come at the right time, don’t they? Truth is measured so many ways but manifesting the truth in our minds can be for our own good or maybe not. In any event, a “thinking mind” usually seeks truth and in the end finding it (the truth) is always very powerful. LOVE IT!
    I noticed you live somewhere near Austin and see you are looking for employment. My company has a branch in Austin and would find joy passing your resume along (if you are comfortable). We are a 45 year old staffing company and may be able to assist. Feel free to send your resume to me at rethridge@meador.com and I will pass along for you.
    Have a faith filled sunday doing what makes you, YOU!
    Renee

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  5. She Who Carries Camera Avatar
    She Who Carries Camera

    What a bummer about the job…crappy economy!
    I found this webpage for mom-son weddings songs and after listening to a few, one in particular stood out. It just seemed so you and him…wish by rascal flats
    http://bridalmusings.com/2012/09/mother-son-wedding-dance-songs/

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  6. Lissa @ lafcustomdesigns Avatar
    Lissa @ lafcustomdesigns

    Ok, good feedback on the job submission, but don’t let that stop you … there IS a position out there just for YOU, at the pay you want/deserve, an appreciative boss, and a nice environment. May I suggest you write your wish list, fold it up and put it someplace safe, so that when the dream comes true, you can pull and out and say, “See, I knew it was out there!” Not having a degree may be a stumbling block, but not insurmountable. Someone will appreciate the self-taught experience you bring to the table.
    And I agree with Pauline, just keep looking and submitting. The players and opportunities are just not ready for you yet. For example, the job I have now … my boss was still in Virginia 3+ months ago, then she had to get settled, then she had to decide what she needed and was looking for … and I had to stumble upon the job posting at just the right time. It will happen for you too.
    Continue doing what makes you feel competent and confident. Then you will be ready when you get to speak to someone face-to-face. Sending love and encouragement.

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  7. Lissa @ lafcustomdesigns Avatar
    Lissa @ lafcustomdesigns

    I’m so bummed … I wrote a long thoughtful, motivational post and it disappeared … poof! As you know, it’s hard to recapture what came so easily. Suffice it to say, I’m on your side and know you’ll find just the right position for you. Maybe not in your time, but in the right time. Make your wish list … what you really want in your next job … great boss, the right amount of money, and a super environment. Tuck it away for the moment you get what you’ve wished for; then you can say, “see, it was out there just for me.”

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  8. Barbara Shallue Avatar
    Barbara Shallue

    Renee, bless your heart! Thank you! I'll send my resume to you and cross my fingers y'all see something worthy in it.
     

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  9. Barbara Shallue Avatar
    Barbara Shallue

    Thank you for the link! I've already opened it and will jump on there in just a second. And thanks for the encouragement on the job, too. I believe you're right, which is why I'm glad you agree with the fortune cookie. I do, too.

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  10. Barbara Shallue Avatar
    Barbara Shallue

    It does, but I won't give up. I know something will turn up eventually. In the meantime, I'm grateful for my part time jobs!
     

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  11. Barbara Shallue Avatar
    Barbara Shallue

    Thank you! I know something will turn up. In the meantime, my part times keep me busy every day, and give me variety. So maybe that's the best path for me, anyway!
     

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  12. Barbara Shallue Avatar
    Barbara Shallue

    You know me well!! I love that song! Thank you!

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  13. Barbara Shallue Avatar
    Barbara Shallue

    Thank you so much for your sweet words of encouragement, Lissa. I love the idea of a wish list. I’m going to do it!

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  14. Gail Avatar
    Gail

    You are quite the social butterfly! Sorry about the job. Yikes, glad I stopped looking. I know something will open up that’s just right for you. Hang in there and pray! You might not want to read my latest post venting about Catholicism. :/ I’m a cradle Catholic but I fear we’re permanently on the outs.

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  15. Barbara Shallue Avatar
    Barbara Shallue

    I'm not giving up on finding the job. I actually like the variety and flexibility of my part time jobs, but they're inconsistent and I'd love to not have to work weekends. Sigh. I'm off to read your Catholic post!! How could I resist after that?
     

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  16. Wolf Pascoe Avatar
    Wolf Pascoe

    I didn’t know about your conversion. You’re full of surprises. Your fifteen years of contemplation reminds me of Thomas Merton’s process before he went into the monastery.

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  17. Barbara Shallue Avatar
    Barbara Shallue

    Yes, I am a zealous Baptist turned cynical Agnostic turned slightly less cynical Catholic. I think that’s why I’m drawn to Thomas Merton’s story.

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