Photo: I saw this booked displayed in the Front Street Book Store in Alpine and immediately thought of you!

(photo by Deborah Barrett)


I love dancing.

Nevermind the therapeutic benefits, both mental and physical. When I hear certain beats and rhythms, I really can't sit still. If nothing else, my toe will be dancing.

What I love almost as much as dancing is getting others out on the dance floor with me, getting them to forget about what other people think and just get lost in the music and the movement. The smiles on their faces make my heart soar.

But dancing is therapeutic, no doubt about it. Along with writing, photography, spending time with friends, and pounding on my drums, it's one of my favorites. (Sometimes I wonder why I need so much therapy…)

Alas, between working weekends and traveling to see my parents'so much, my dancing nights have dwindled over the past year. Consequently, my stress levels have risen. So this past weekend, I talked a bunch of friends into joining me on the dance floor.

It was a blast!

That was sweet!, but having a friend think of me when she saw a copy of "Hard Times Require Furious Dancing" by Alice Walker in a shop, and take the time to send me the photo of it…well, that was just as sweet! (Thank you again, Debbie!)

Here are a few other sweet! moments from the past week…

 

Monday: bird-watching and bird-listening; managing to put off a trip to the grocery store; taking care of dusty but important things on your to-do list; a day at home with your husband, even if you're busy with your own projects

Tuesday: waking early enough to write and exercise before work; another mallard sighting; redbud trees blooming longer than usual; meeting other photographers; helping a friend celebrate her birthday

Wednesday: waking early enough two days in a row to write and exercise before work; sleeping through a hailstorm when you're exhausted; finishing a book that's driving you crazy wanting to know how it ends

Thursday: time to weed through your untended, overgrown email inbox; your husband caring enough about a wounded snake to put it in a terrarium so it can die in peace; walking the streets of Venice again, at least in your memory and words and photos

Friday: traffic working with you on an early morning road trip; splashes of bluebonnets lining a highway; time to chat with your dad, even if it's in a hospital waiting room; your mom breezing through her nuclear stress test with no problems; getting together with friends and spending hours on a dance floor; good bands



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Saturday: sleeping in; biscuits and bacon for breakfast, thanks to your dad; a yard decorated with pink and purple flowers; hanging out with your parents all day; a hug from, and chance to visit with, your sister; a former co-worker contacting you for a potential new job



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Sunday: sleeping in, Day 2; a walk around your old neighborhood on a brisk sunshine-filled day; new houses going up in an old neighborhood; a field of tiny yellow flowers; stopping along a highway to capture bluebonnets and Indian paintbrushes with your camera; wiggly puppies welcoming you home



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Monday: getting to work in a library with a view of Texas hills and blue skies

 

I hope all of you had a week filled with therapeutic, sweet! moments, too! 


“the world has changed: it did not change without your prayers without your faith without your determination to believe in liberation and kindness; without your dancing through the years that had no beat.”

~ Alice Walker, "Hard Times Require Furious Dancing: New Poems"

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18 responses to “Hard Times Require Furious Dancing”

  1. lisa Avatar

    I hope the job works out!

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  2. seabluelee Avatar

    Lovely post! My theory is that the more we notice sweet moments such as these, the more of them we will have. Your wisteria is gorgeous!

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  3. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    I believe they're there, it's just a matter of getting into the habit of seeing them! Thank you!
     

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  4. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Thanks, Lisa. Me, too!
     

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  5. Kelly Avatar

    I love the sound of your week! And I loved seeing the flower photos… Still grey and dreary here. Now I want to check out that book, love her work and what a great title!

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  6. missing moments Avatar

    Love your wisteria … and yep, we need to grab those sweet moments!

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  7. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    I want to find the book, too, for the same reasons! Hope you get some sunshine there soon! Sorry for the problems posting your comment – Typepad keeps marking some spam (including my replies!) It’s getting better, but…sigh.

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  8. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Ah, the wisteria was dreamy. I wish I had some near me!

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  9. Ms. A Avatar

    How did you do in the hailstorm, any damage?
    Good luck on the job!

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  10. SHE Avatar

    I, too, love to dance…just don’t do it enough. That last image is so beautiful!

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  11. lisa Avatar

    Barbara, the photograph of the wisteria (?) is absolutely gorgeous.
    Another person who loves to dance!!! There is nothing better for making me feel just fine.
    I hope you’re having a wonderful day!

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  12. lisleman Avatar

    “sleeping in; biscuits and bacon for breakfast” – alright life is not fair. That’s a perfect morning.

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  13. Otto von Münchow Avatar

    I think dancing is great too, as long as I am not required to do certain patterns or steps. I just like to dance free and wildly. Although like you, it’s not happening as much as I would like for me either. I guess it’s time…

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  14. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    I know a few steps for country dancing, but otherwise it's just wild and free for me, too. Yes, you need to go!!
     

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  15. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    I agree. I'm longing for another one like that right now!
     

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  16. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    I hope we get to go dancing together some day!
     

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  17. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    We didn't have any hail damage. I suspect it went all around us and all we got was rain, somehow (thank goodness!) Thanks for the good luck wishes. Still nothing definitive, but keeping my fingers crossed!
     

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  18. Wolf Pascoe Avatar

    All dancing is good, but I love to square dance. The world would be a better place if we all did that together on weekends.

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