"May your coming year overflow with love and blessings and wishes come true!"

Last year I wrote that in my oldest child's birthday post, in honor of his 27th birthday. A few months later he married the love of his life, honeymooned in Italy, and bought a home in a city he loves. My wish for him came true.

 

Tommy and kirby sweet

Now I've blinked and he's somehow a year older, as of yesterday, around noon. He celebrated first thing in the morning by running 10 miles from his home to the state capitol building and back, stopping at the State Library long enough to say hi to his little brother, who works there.

Considering his struggle with asthma when he was younger – all those hours I spent giving him nebulizer treatments, waiting in doctors' offices, keeping up with medications – his ability to run long distances (his second marathon is coming up) is definitely a wish come true for me.

I'm not sure how he's going to top the highs of the past year, but my wish for him is the same, for overflowing love and blessings and wishes come true, because he deserves them. 

I would say that even if he wasn't my son. His thoughtfulness and compassion for friends and family – especially my parents over the past year – inspire me to be a better person. What more could a mother ask for?

I didn't get to see him yesterday, but that's okay. I saw him on Thanksgiving and on the weekend when we both visited my mom and I know I'll see him again soon, because for the first time in ten years, he lives in my city. 

Just another one of my wishes come true, although it doesn't top the one that came true the day he was born, making me a mother, the toughest and best job I've ever had.

So, Tommy, sweet son, may your coming year overflow with love and blessings and wishes come true! 

Love, 

Mom

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26 responses to “Twenty-Eight, and Wishes Come True”

  1. missing moments Avatar

    They grow up so fast! Congratulations on a remarkable young man!

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  2. Ms. A Avatar

    Happy Birthday, Tommy!

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  3. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Thank you! I'll tell him!
    Barbara Shallue, Texas Realtor
    Keller Williams
    http://www.barbarashallue-Austin.com

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  4. Hilary Avatar

    Awww so very sweet. Happy birthday to your handsome and wonderful boy.

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  5. lisleman Avatar

    You are so right about it being the toughest and best job – for both mom and dad.
    If you blink a little longer, he might be telling you that he has taken on that tough and best job too.

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  6. lisa Avatar

    It all goes by just too fast!
    Happy Birthday to your “little” boy!

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  7. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Boy, doesn't it?? Thank you!
     

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  8. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Boy, doesn't it?? Thank you!
     

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  9. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    When he does, I know he'll be awesome at it!
     

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  10. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Thank you so much! 
     

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  11. Tabor Avatar

    You have said it all and so well!

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  12. beth Avatar

    what a great post!!!!

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  13. Gail Dixon Avatar

    Sweet post for your very handsome son. You are indeed blessed.
    Btw, I’ve now added this blog to Feedly since you seem to post here more than Blogger. ๐Ÿ™‚

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  14. catskillblogger Avatar

    Happy Birthday to your son!

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  15. Lady Fi Avatar

    Awww – what sweet shots!

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  16. Pauline Avatar

    Love is evident in every word! A marvelous post!

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  17. Brenda Nowicke Avatar

    I wiped tears from start to finish reading this post. Tommy is such a sweet, loving, wonderful young man, and I’m not just saying that because I’m his aunt! You and Tom did a fabulous job raising all three of your kids…kudos to both of you. Love you all!!

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  18. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    My kids are lucky to have such a wonderful aunt, too! xoxo
     

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  19. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Was it that obvious? ๐Ÿ™‚ Thank you, Pauline!
     

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  20. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Thank you! Yes, I've been posting here more than on my photography blog. I take the photos, but don't always do anything with them!
     

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  21. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    He's a great kid! I couldn't go wrong. ๐Ÿ™‚
     

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  22. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    He's such a great kid, it was easy!
     

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