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I was on the road early Monday morning with TG, heading east to Houston. We gathered my mom's belongings from the nursing home, spent a few hours at the house gathering more things and visiting with my sister and friends before loading up and heading west into the sunset, back to Austin to start a new chapter in both of our lives.

Tom helped me get her settled in her new room on Tuesday. Her roommate is a character. The two of them together might be trouble.

 

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This was the first Christmas my son and daughter-in-law spent as a married couple, the first in their new home.

I think they felt tugged and pulled by all of the family celebrations – his and hers…we all live in Austin – so I am grateful we had so much time to celebrate with them on Christmas Day, including a game of ping-pong.

 

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This was our first Christmas without my Daddy.

I know Mama felt it more than the rest of us, but, as usual, she kept a smile on her face, only fussing about getting too many presents. 

 

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To better accomodate Mama's wheelchair, Tom added a stone 'ramp' to the pathway leading to our house.

He is amazing in both his skill and his thoughtfulness. He truly loves my mom and, believe me, the feeling is mutual. 

 

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I saw Mama twice today, first on my way into town to deliver earnest money to a title company and stop by the grocery store, and then on my way home, dropping off snacks and picking up her laundry.

I wish she could just stay with us, but this is the next best thing, to have her so close.

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In honor and encouragement of my new career (and because she's nuts and goes overboard at Christmas), my friend Mary Kay made me this ornament/wreath. It's on the tree now, but will have a place in my office once the tree and other decorations are boxed up.

 

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My first closing as a Realtor is Monday. Another first to close out 2013, a year that brought us much happiness with Tommy and Kirby's wedding, hope and faith in the future with my new career, but also heartache in the passing of my sweet Daddy. 

 

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I wish all of you the peace and comfort of Christmas throughout the coming year, and sweet memories to treasure the rest of your life. 

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8 responses to “Christmas Firsts”

  1. Gail Avatar

    Yay, you got a closing!! Sounds like a good way to end the year with ALL of your Firsts. Big hugs and congrats on all of it!

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  2. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Due to some delays, it looks like I might be beginning 2014 with a closing, rather than ending 2013 with one, but that's an awesome way to start a new year, isn't it? Thank you, Gail, and big hugs back to you. Wishing you a beautiful new year! xoxo
     

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  3. Hilary Avatar

    Lots of milestones here for sure. Some sad.. some hopeful.. some great. Knowing you, your focus will be on the great and hopeful. You have such a sunny outlook and I’m sure that was taught to you by your beautiful mother. She truly is a gorgeous lady.
    “Her roommate is a character. The two of them together might be trouble.” This sounds like the start of a beautiful friendship. ๐Ÿ˜‰
    And big congrats on your upcoming first closing. Yay!

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  4. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Well, no sense dwelling on anything other than the great and hopeful, right? Too depressing, and life's too short for that. Plus you miss so much! ๐Ÿ™‚ My mom does have a great attitude. She's always been an inspiration. Hope there's nothing but beautiful blessings waiting for you in 2014, Hilary!
     

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  5. catskillblogger Avatar

    The first holiday is always the hardest. I’m glad you guys had a good day though. I’m so glad that you were able to move your Mom closer to you. That’s great getting to see her so often. And congrats on the closing!

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  6. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    It was actually easier than I expected it to be – on me, anyway. I'm sure all of this is totally overwhelming to my mom, though. Sigh.
     
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  7. Wolf Pascoe Avatar

    Hey, congrats on the closing. That came quick! As someone said once, chance favors the prepared mind. Many more to come in 2014!

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  8. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Well, it's been delayed. Sigh. But this one deal has been an amazing learning experience! And I have a listing appointment today. Yay! Wishing you tons of blessings in 2014!
     

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