Tuesday I drove to Houston for a reunion of the DuPont Deer Park Old Farts Club, an exclusive group of people who helped start-up the DuPont Syngas/Methanol plant and worked there in its infancy. I was part of the second group of plant technicians to be hired (#43) in November of 1978, when the plant was still under construction.

The reunion wasn't just for us plant technicians who operated the plant, but also for the engineers who guided us, the maintenance and instrumentation crews, the office staff…you name it. We were a team and shared the adventure.

Too many have passed on, and that's why we decided a couple of years ago it was high time to get together. This was our second reunion. Why have it on a Tuesday? Ky was returning to the U.S. from vacation abroad the day before, Oscar was scheduled to fly out to Saudi Arabia for work the next morning, and Ken was returning to Panama, where he now lives, on the 10th.

It's amazing it worked out, when I think about it.

Even though some don't seem to be interested in the get-togethers, many of us cherish those friendships and memories and enjoy seeing each other again. 

Still, it can be a bit of a headache sending out emails and getting people to commit. Thank goodness Mark, one of the engineers, stepped up to reserve a spot for us. Thank you, Mark!

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Oscar sent an email the next day that made all of the preparations totally worthwhile. 

Morning All,

 

Thanks again Barbara, for going that extra mile, literally, to bring everyone together. The food was outstanding, great friends with whom just to laugh, a little moment to share that something (talent) we were all so blessed and gifted with and all shared together. My God, we lived our lives all together for more hours than we spent with our families…  This is what true friendship is all about, those 3 beautiful hours were worth more then money can ever buy. I loved this moment we shared with all of you, my family and old friends. Thank you all for being there and Donny, please stop saying your days are numbered. You will out live us all. Well, heading back to the airport for my 20 plus hour journey back to Saudi. We will do this again, be safe and stay healthy everyone. Happy New Year and send the photos please. If we don't see you all again, I promise we will see you in heaven. Later Oscar ( O G )
 
Thank you, Oscar, and be safe!
 
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Heladio (what a great name!) and Oscar. (Oscar is the best whistler I've ever heard.)
 
 
Here are a few other sweet!s from my past week…

 

 

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Tuesday: a pond reflection framed in ice; frisky dogs; your husband getting a fire going in your woodburning stove for you before leaving for work; a friend letting you crash at her house when in town for a quick visit; your mobile mapquest app guiding you around a traffic jam so you're in time for your reunion; hugs and visits and laughter with longtime friends; staying up late visiting with your sweet friend

 

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Brian and Cliff – these two guys could make me laugh till I cried – and probably still could!

 

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Ky introduced me to classical music while carpooling, along with Brian, and Chinese/Viet Nam history during breaks on nightshifts; Howard and I shared books, and he had my back when I voiced concerns about fumes in the lab while I was pregnant. (If you've read "A View from a Catwalk", he's the friend who was knocked off of his bicycle in an explosion.)

 

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Henry and Donnie…oh, I have lots of stories about Donnie. Unfortunately, most I can't share. 

 

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Groundbreakers. Imagine us all in hard hats and safety glasses. Well, and thirty years younger. These are just a few of the interesting, smart, talented women I worked with.  

 

 

Wednesday: a deal coming through you thought was lost; breakfast at a friend's restaurant with another friend and your sister; making it home safe, despite constant rain and traffic; being able to stop and visit your mom on your way home;  your daughter making you a quesadilla for dinner

 

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Thursday: making lots of progress on a project; finally taking two boxes of stuff to Goodwill

Friday: a glimpse of the Mallard couple, even though you don't have your camera; feeling optimistic about your listing; your son surprising you with a ticket to see George Strait in concert

 

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Saturday: an evening at home with your mom, husband, and kids, eating hamburgers and watching "Enchanted"

Sunday: attending Mass with your husband; another day hanging out with your mom; Realtor friends who think of you when they need someone to cover for them at an open house

I hope you remember to notice the sweet! moments in your week!

"Do not take anything for granted — not one smile or one person or one rainbow or one breath, or one night in your cozy bed."

~Terri Guillemets

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26 responses to “From reunions to George…what a week!”

  1. Ms. A Avatar

    Great photos of the reunion!
    With all the hours spent at the hospital, my cozy bed gets much more appreciation than it ever has!

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  2. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    I imagine so! Michael and all of you are still in my prayers!
     

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  3. Brenda Nowicke Avatar

    You would think I would know better! I was still in bed when you invited me to join you and Rae for breakfast. I knew you would be hurrying home after we ate and didn’t want to delay you, so I didn’t think things through…Barb + friends and/or family = photos. So, as the Beatles said, I “woke up, fell out of bed, dragged a comb across my head.” And you two show up looking like movie stars! Of course you had to have photos.
    I really don’t mind–I was glad we were able to work a little visit into your busy trip, and Rae is always fun. Your photos are treasures, allowing me to keep up with what’s happening in Shallue World. I love you, Baby Sister!

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  4. catskillblogger Avatar

    I’m glad you had a great reunion with your old coworkers. I think it would be fun to have a reunion from my first job, working at Ames.

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  5. lisleman Avatar

    A busy week, but I think you tend to stay very busy all the time. It’s nice to be busy with events and things like this.

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  6. lisleman Avatar

    did that comment go through?

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  7. lisleman Avatar

    Strange I’ve not had a problem with comments at your blog for awhile.
    Well if it was lost – here’s the comment
    It’s nice to be busy with these types of events and things.

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  8. Louisianabelleforever.blogspot.com Avatar

    What a long history you have with the Dupont folks! Looks like a fun group. Glad you enjoyed George Strait. I was never into country music until I saw the movie Crazy Heart–bought the whole soundtrack. Now watching Nashville I have downloaded a few songs from the show. I think I lost my rock ‘n roll card! Oh no!

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  9. Louisianabelleforever.blogspot.com Avatar

    Boy, it was tough leaving a comment here. Just wanted you to be aware…

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  10. Jennifer Richardson Avatar

    Your life and connections truly inspire me, Barbara.
    You have such a gift for relationship.
    I don’t think there is anything
    more beautiful.
    Thanks for sharing your artful life,
    Jennifer
    (that icy pond picture makes my heart leap!)

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  11. Hilary Avatar

    What a great reunion. You all look so at home in each others company. Good friends like that are worth billions.

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  12. Wolf Pascoe Avatar

    Good for you getting together with your old group. It would be great to have a reunion with all the folks from my intern and resident days. Hmm. Probably can’t share some of those stories either . . .

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  13. Rae Sinor Avatar
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    Oh I love the note from Oscar! I bet that did make all the frustrations (from those folks not replying) just go away! Lots of memories, that are just part of peoples fabric! HMMM! As you are of mine sweet friend! Glad you crashed here at the house and we got a little visit in, and with Brenda too! Breakfast is always a great meal to share! Much love!

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  14. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Yes, his note helped so much. And getting to spend time with you and see Brenda made it all worth it, too! Love you!
     

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  15. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    You should do it!
     

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  16. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    I never understood why some of my friends were so crazy about George…until now! What a cutie! I loved Crazy Heart, too, and also bought the soundtrack. But I've always had a split personality between country and rock. I'm sure you still have your card!!
     

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  17. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    They truly are! 
     

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  18. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    I have a tendency to hold onto anything that matters to me…especially people!
     
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  19. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Thanks for letting me know and for your persistence!! Typepad has always had comment issues off and on. I wonder if they changed it again! 
     

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  20. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    I think the first one really did drop, but I got the next two. You're the second one to mention a problem with comments. I guess Typepad changed something again. Argh. Thank you for your persistence, Bill! And yes, it is nice to be busy with good things and great friends!
     

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  21. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    If you're in contact with any of them, you should try!
     

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  22. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Brenda, I wish I looked that good when I fall out of bed and run a comb through my hair! You looked beautiful! Thank you for meeting us. I wouldn't have left without seeing you, and I'm glad we had time to visit. I love you, Big Sister!
     

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  23. Suldog Avatar

    I like to think I’m fairly grateful for what God gives me (that is to say everything) but when I read your lists of sweets I always come across at least one thing you mention that I say to myself, “Man, that’s right! That was pretty cool that such-and-such happened to me this week.” So thank you for that!

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  24. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    You are welcome! But I'll vouch that you don't seem to take a thing for granted and know to be grateful for the little things as much as the big ones.
     

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  25. Otto von Münchow Avatar

    I usually enjoy reunions – and you seemed to have a great come-together. Lovely photos from the reunion. I wish you all the best in 2014, Barbara.

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  26. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Thanks, Otto. I love reunions, too, and truly don't understand people who aren't interested in them! Hope you have a fantastic year!
     

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