I have a confession: I often forget to write down my sweet!s right when I notice them.

…if I even notice them to begin with. 

That's when composing this weekly post of mine becomes a real challenge, but even more important to accomplish.

It forces me to stop and reflect on the seven days just passed … to dig out the overlooked sweet!s from under the rubble of too-busy-days and a bad memory, to polish them up and set them in a place of honor, befitting special gifts from above, where I can see them and remember.

I encourage you to try it, especially if you've had a week that seemed full of one disappointment after another. I guarantee there were sweet! moments in there, too, waiting to be noticed, to brighten your day, to make you smile or give you hope if you're running dry.

 

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Here are the ones I managed to dig up from my cluttered mind, which I think often resembles those dead weeds up there…

 

Tuesday: exploring gorgeous homes; enjoying fresh-grilled hamburgers outside near a lake in springtime; your lease clients' application being accepted; your friends sending your mom "Happy St. Patrick's Day!" cards

 

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Wednesday: discovering castles; numbing medications when you're having the second part of a root canal; the balance of your bill being a fraction of what you were expecting to pay

Thursday: a mostly-full moon accompanying you on your morning walk; showing houses to lease clients; driving through Austin on a perfect spring day; news that a friend is pregnant; bluebonnets on the roadsides; helping a friend celebrate her birthday with Chinese food and a movie; discovering Muppet movies

Friday: support, encouragement, and ideas from colleagues; showing houses to buyer clients; beginning the second season of "Game of Thrones" with your son

 

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Saturday: sleeping in; lazy days at home; the redbuds rebounding from the ice storm; more "Game of Thrones"

 

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Sunday: Garden of Eatin' inspiration; your mom feeling better after a night of nausea; someone else cooking dinner; more "Game of Thrones"

Monday: a whole week of sticking to your new morning time-blocked routine; visiting with friends you haven't seen in a long time; puppies and horses; friends who take the time to send your mom sweet cards

 

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“I love finding gems. However I’m not talking about ludicrously expensive diamonds, or priceless sapphires. I mean the impetuous, primitive rushes of passion and love we experience so rarely that they become impossible to ignore.

That overwhelming sense of selflessness and beauty. Hope and desire. Happiness and strength.

These are the moments that define us as people. As individuals.

Should it be falling in love, playing a guitar for the first time, donating to charity, meeting new people, staying up till three in the morning listening to old Bob Marley Vinyls or beating the elite 4 on Pokemon.

Whatever it is, it’s moments like these that are worth more than any gem or diamond. Treasure or material goods.”

― George MacDonald

  

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25 responses to “Sweet Reflection”

  1. Lady Fi Avatar

    Love those delicate spring flowers!

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  2. Ms. A Avatar

    I founds some blooms mixed in with the weeds of life last week… my Daughter and Grands stopped by to visit!
    I LOVE that sign!!!

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  3. Gail Avatar

    The sign is awesome! Love that. Because really, we ALL sin. Sounds like another sweet week for you. Here’s to another one ahead!

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  4. lisleman Avatar

    I’m glad you wrote that explanation for your “sweets” post. I did start to wonder if you were some Pollyanna type going around with sunshine, lollipops and rainbow following her around. I agree that looking on the bright side, being positive does make a difference in your life.
    You even include a favorite of mine – sleeping in.
    all the best

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  5. lisa Avatar

    Another sweet week for you, Barbara.
    You are the third person who has mentioned having a root canal.
    Guess who is number 4????
    Yup, two weeks ago. 😦
    Have a wonderful week ahead!

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  6. Linda Hoye Avatar

    Love the idea of being deliberate about looking for sweet/special moments in every day. May have to borrow that idea! Wishing for you another week filled with sweets!

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  7. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    I wonder if we're all about the same age, and those old fillings are finally wearing out? 🙂 It's not my first, but I think it's been my worst!
     
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  8. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Yeah, someone recently said something to me that indicated they had the same impression, that I was always cheer and sunshine. No, this is totally a therapeutic exercise…a slap in the face to stop my whining, doom and gloom attitude which can creep up on me all too easily! (Speaking of sleeping in, I'm really, really looking forward to Saturday morning…)
     

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  9. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    I find I need less attitude adjustments when I pay attention. 🙂 Wishing you a week full of them, too!
     

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  10. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Wishing you a sweet-filled week, too!
     

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  11. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Time with my kids is always at the top of my sweet list. I can only imagine how sweet time with grandkids will be! 

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  12. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    I'm so happy to see them again!
     

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  13. Wolf Pascoe Avatar

    We call it “Game of Groans.”

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  14. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Very fitting!!!! (And now that will be stuck in my head.)
     

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  15. Hilary Avatar

    You’re so right.. there are indeed sweet moment even among the bad. We’re dealing with a broken kitchen pipe and subsequent water damaged walls and basement. But the right people were here at the time it was discovered and they were able to start the recover process right away. Lots to be grateful for. And you show that so perfectly all the time. I love that chalkboard sign. A lot of people could learn by that.

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  16. Suldog Avatar

    I do the “counting my blessings” thing most nights while saying my prayers, but almost never to the extent I probably should. You are so good at it…

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  17. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Only because if I don't write something down or take a picture of it, I forget it! Unless it's a bad thing, of course.
     

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  18. Tabor Avatar

    I do miss those lovely bluebonnets..so tiny and so many!

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  19. Otto von Münchow Avatar

    I think you are so right about the sweet reflections. We often tend to forget to notice them, and doing a registration like you do here, makes us realize many of the small and bigger sweets we encounter on our way in life. As always you have such beautiful images accompanying your writing.

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  20. catskillblogger Avatar

    I actually found an iPhone app called Happier where you post your happy moments. I started using it about two weeks ago and it’s really nice.

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  21. Jennifer Richardson Avatar

    oh Barbara thanks for putting it so well
    about practicing gratitude….that it really
    does take an active practice
    rather than just an attitude.
    (I love how brene’ brown describes it like
    having an attitude of yoga because you wear yoga
    clothes and enjoy the aesthetics but you don’t have
    an actual yoga practice unless you get out on the floor
    and do it:))
    You practice it so well, friend, and it inspires me.
    Thank you,
    Jennifer

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  22. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    I guess we're even, then, because you always inspire me!
     

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  23. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    That is really cool! I would forget to post them, though. I created a list on my phone and do a halfway good job of jotting them down there, but then I get busy and forget again. Sigh.
     

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  24. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Keeping track of my sweet moments is cheap therapy and a great attitude adjuster! I highly recommend it. 
     

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  25. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    They are really spreading out everywhere now!!
     

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