Mama lies in a hospital bed beside me, still groggy from anesthesia. I listen to her breathing, every now and then glancing up from my laptop to the monitor above her bed to check her oxygen level.

For me, it started with a call yesterday morning at 4:30. Mama was having difficulty breathing and an ambulance was on its way to the nursing home to transport her to the hospital. Where did I want them to take her?

Just a few weeks ago an elderly couple from my church told me about a nearby hospital that had released the husband when the wife felt he was still very sick. Sure enough, later that evening she took him to another hospital where they found he was running a high fever and had a severe urinary tract infection.

I told them to take Mama to that second hospital.

It took several breathing treatments and steroids through an IV, but within a few hours her breathing was under control. That's when the internist examined her and discovered she had a tender spot on her right side. A few tests later, surgery was scheduled for today to say goodbye and good riddance to her gall bladder.

I never thought I'd be grateful for an asthma attack.

Please keep my mom in your thoughts and prayers as she begins the road to recovery. With 24/7 oxygen and limited mobility, she has a high risk of developing pneumonia.

Thank you!

P.S. Another blessing…she smiled at me before I left, despite the pain and lingering fog. 

 

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  Me and mama Christmas

 

"You're so happy," the technician told Mama as she wheeled her to pre-op. 

"Laughter is good for you," said Mama.

She's still teaching me: You can always find something to smile about.

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12 responses to “Surprise Blessings”

  1. VM Sehy Avatar

    Hope your mom has a speedy recovery. I know it’s hard. And I’m glad you found a good hospital. With you mom’s situation, having the best care is priceless.

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  2. Hilary Avatar

    I’m sorry your sweet mother is going through a tough time, Barbara. It must be so hard on you. I’m glad they were able to diagnose and treat her. I’m also glad you had some insight as to which hospital would be better. I’ll keep your mother in my best thoughts. And hugs to you. Please keep us posted.

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  3. Ms. A Avatar

    Thoughts and prayers!

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  4. Tabor Avatar

    Wishing your mom a fast healing and a new day soon. This is difficult for you and I also wish you a new day soon.

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  5. lisa Avatar

    Strange how just this morning, I thought about how you’d not posted in a bit, and wondered if all was okay.
    I am glad your mom is okay, and please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.

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  6. lisleman Avatar

    “Laughter is good for you” – she is very wise. All the best for her and your family. Stay strong and happy.

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  7. Gail Avatar

    This is great news!! Having good, competent medical care is key. Not all hospitals are equal. When my husband worked as a lab technician years ago he’d always say, “Don’t bring me to X hospital if I get sick.”–It the one he worked at. It had a terrible reputation. I feel confident your mother will make a great recovery where she is.

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  8. Wolf Pascoe Avatar

    You went for the second opinion first–good on you. Sending healing thoughts.

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  9. Suldog Avatar

    Such true words your Mama said about laughter! It’s a sure cure for anything that ails you (or, at least, if you find yourself unable to laugh, then you’re probably incurable!) Prayers said, of course.

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  10. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Thank you! It's amazing how her smile can light up a room!
     

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  11. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Thank you so much, Wolf. I think they helped. She's getting better every day!
     

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  12. catskillblogger Avatar

    I’m sorry about your mother, but glad that she seems to be in good hands. Happy Easter!

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