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Whether it's the heat or just old age catching up to him, Max has gone down a pretty steep hill lately.

Just last week we took the long walk, around the curve and down into the creekbed. But now he can't walk far before having to stop and rest. Our walks have gotten shorter and shorter. This morning we barely made it past the next property before he was ready to head back home.

I'm not sure if that's due to his congestive heart failure, or because he hasn't eaten much of anything in several days, despite our coaxing. TG even tries to feed him by hand, a trick that has always worked in the past. (He's a little spoiled.)

He's still drinking and "marking his territory", if you get my drift, so that's a good thing, but I sure wish he'd start eating again.

I'm hoping it's just the heat. We're keeping him and Belle inside all day and half the night. It hasn't made a difference in his appetite, but it obviously makes him happy, and I'm grateful for the chance to repay some of the happiness he's provided me in his short life.

It's only been about ten years since he wandered up to our house and adopted us. Sure, he's a big dog – a German Shepherd/Great Dane mix, our vet guessed – and typically they don't live long lives, and yeah, the orthopedic doctor who diagnosed his elbow dysplasia when he was 18 months old said he could be lame by the time he was 7 years old even if we fed him the right food and gave him all the supplements.

But still ... ten years just isn't enough time with that old puppy.

However, this is a sweet! post, so I'll focus on the sweet moments with him over the past week…how happy he is to see me first thing in the morning … how eager he is to get started on our morning walks … the joy in his eyes when Belle kisses his whole face … the pride in his eyes when he watches her run circles around us … the way he snuggles against me, almost knocking me down … his "Look how cute I am" pose, with one paw looped over his nose …

It's amazing how they fit right into places in your heart you didn't realize were empty, isn't it?

 

I talk to him when I'm lonesome like; and I'm sure he understands. When he looks at me so attentively, and gently licks my hands; then he rubs his nose on my tailored clothes, but I never say naught thereat.

For the good Lord knows I can buy more clothes, but never a friend like that.

~W. Dayton Wedgefarth

 

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Here are a few other sweet!s from the past week or so…

 

Wednesday: spending hours with your mom; celebrating your baby girl's birthday with pizza and chocolate cake; laughing and reciting lines while watching "Goonies" with your son and daughter

 

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Thursday: discovering your aloe plant survived the winter after all

Friday: your mom winning in dominoes; an evening with all of your kids, your husband, and your brother-in-law from Arizona; a message from a longtime friend; a beautiful bracelet from your goddaughter

 

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Saturday: showing houses in the morning and again in the evening; bridal showers; your brother-in-law wanting to visit your mom; playing 3-13 with family

 

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Sunday: when everything falls into place, despite some disappointments along the way; steady traffic at your open house; visiting a dear friend from church with your mom 

Monday: your husband noticing, and fixing, your flat tire, even though it made him hit traffic on his way to work 

Tuesday: getting to work early and accomplishing a lot before lunchtime; the flexibility to run home and let your puppies in the house on a hot day; sharing cookies and watching "Andy Griffith" with your mom

Wednesday: a morning walk with your puppies for the first time in five days; time with good friends you don't see often enough; coconut milk chocolate mint ice cream with pecans and hot fudge

Thursday: the feel of raindrops on your skin; cancelled meetings that allow you to work from home; lots of showings on your listings; social time with your colleague-friends; ping-pong, ping-pong, ping-pong (especially when you win!)

 

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I hope you've had a week full of sweet!s (share them in the comments!) and this next week you find so many more your cup overflows!

 

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14 responses to “Old puppies, morning walks, and other sweet!s”

  1. Hilary Avatar

    Your beautiful Max. If he’s drinking, peeing and generally happy, he might not be failing as much as you fear. Hopefully your vet has some solutions to make him more comfy. What a gorgeous boy.

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  2. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    I hope you're right, Hilary! He's fooled us before, that's for sure.
     

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  3. lisleman Avatar

    “fit right into places in your heart you didn’t realize were empty” – heart warming thought. Pets do become family and family is important to all of us.
    Even though it seemed a little silly to me that you asked about the readers about their sweets every week, I will admit the question helps me think about it. The background about my sweet is longer than a comment section needs but the short of it is my BIL liked and took and item I had fixed to his office for display.
    thanks

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  4. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Bill, you're always one of the best ones about sharing a sweet here. I can't believe you thought it was silly to ask! But I'm glad it got you thinking about it. I love how something simple can make my day…if I let it.
     

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  5. Jennifer Richardson Avatar

    my heart got a little misty reading your tender words
    about that beauty of a pup with the wizened white whiskers
    and the noble eyes. oh my heart. my old lab is 10 too and
    really showing signs of distress on our shorter summer walks
    and it tugs at me, too. wishing you all so much grace
    as life moves on.
    feeling Ping-Pong pleasure over your sweets….thanks for
    sharing them,
    Jennifer

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  6. Wolf Pascoe Avatar

    What a beautiful dog.
    Wish we had a place to play ping pong near us!

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  7. Annie Avatar
    Annie

    Just found your blog and was drawn in by the story of the sweet dog and the joy in his life and yours. Take special care of him in the heat. My sweet today was sharing the day with my son who started a new exciting job in a new town and will be moving away soon with his sweet dog, Ellie.

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  8. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Annie, thank you for stopping by and sharing your sweet! Congratulations to your son. I hope it's an exciting adventure for him. Max finally ate some yesterday (leftover grilled chicken and tuna noodle casserole) but he can barely walk. His old legs just don't have any oomph left. Sigh.
     

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  9. lisa Avatar

    They really do become such a very special part of out lives.
    I sure hope Max is feeling better soon, Barbara.
    He is one VERY handsome fella.

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  10. Gail Avatar

    Oh dear. I do hope Max snaps out of this. I’ve always believed a dog’s only fault is they don’t live long enough.

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  11. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Amen to that. Thanks, Gail. 
     

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  12. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Isn't he? Thank you, Lisa. I hope he comes out of it. I know we don't have much time, anyway, but I want all I can get!
     

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  13. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    I bet you do! But you could do what we did….find someone who is tired of their table and ready to give it away for free!
     

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  14. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    I'll keep your old puppy in my prayers. I know you already treasure your time with him. xoxo
     

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