Me and JD

 

I worked in a chemical plant for thirteen years, where all kinds of explosive and flammable materials swam through the pipes surrounding us. Propylene, hydrogen, syngas, and methanol, to name a few.

For the first decade it was a DuPont plant, where safety and proper procedures were taken very seriously and drilled into us daily. We still had a few explosions and fires, and unfortunately, two fatalities, although they weren't DuPont people and they didn't die in an explosion, but during a shutdown. They didn't follow the rules about using plant air for breathing air. (It's backed up by nitrogen.) 

I quit that job on my first day back following the birth of my third baby. I had planned to wait a few more months, but I had a nagging fear about being killed in an explosion and leaving my children motherless.

An extreme thought, perhaps, but it wasn't that farfetched.

Fast forward twenty-three years…

I'm happy to report there haven't been any more fatalities at my old plant and I'm now a Realtor.

 

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…and this past week a Realtor in Arkansas, Beverly Carter, disappeared while showing property to someone.

It hit me that my job as a real estate agent is quite possibly much more dangerous than my job as a chemical plant technician, despite the nicer clothes and smiles. 

It just doesn't seem possible, does it? But think about it. All the hours I spend on the road probably put me in more danger than walking in that pipe alley years ago.

And then consider the open houses, where you're in a house with strangers milling about (if you survive putting up the signs on busy corners)… listing appointments with complete strangers you often meet for the first time in their homes… showing property to strangers, either meeting them at vacant homes or driving them around in your car.  

Granted, Beverly was probably one of about a million agents around the world doing the exact same thing she was at that very moment, and most likely they finished up and joined their families for dinner.

From what I hear, she was an experienced agent and had taken some safety precautions before showing this home. Not enough, it seems, although I'm not blaming her at all. 

There's been a lot of discussion and sharing of safety tips and ideas in Facebook real estate groups this past week. I already practiced quite a few of them, thanks to my Keller Williams Realty training, but I've gotten a lot of ideas.

One agent snaps photos of the ID's of every visitor to her open houses and texts them to her office. Another has video cameras placed throughout the open house. 

When showing property, I already insisted on having a signed Buyer/Tenant Agreement. I figure if someone refuses to sign, they aren't serious about buying… and are thus a waste of my time.

Recently I also made it standard procedure to copy my client's driver's license and email my itinerary to Tom and the kids. 

But through the discussion, I found many more tips, not the least of which involve basicly arming myself with different products and weapons. 

It's not fun to think about, when your main objective is to help people, either to find a home or sell a home, so they can move on to the next adventure in their lives.

But no matter how much I enjoy meeting new people and helping them, I can't forget my first duty is to my family. I owe it to them to play it safe. As my cousin said, there are too many crazies out there.

I need to remember my DuPont days and be sure I follow the safety rules and procedures. I need to be aware of my surroundings at all times and never assume anything. Sometimes the greatest danger lies in complacency.

Please keep Beverly Carter in your prayers, that despite the odds, she is found safe and well, very soon. 

 

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And also, please don't give your agent a hard time if they ask you to sign a contract or send them a copy of your photo ID. Cut them some slack. It's not personal; they're just trying to be safe in a dangerous world. Thank you.

 

(I just heard on GMA that Beverly's body has been found. It's not the result that was hoped for, but I pray it brings some relief to her family.)

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18 responses to “Reality (or “Why I need you to sign this contract and show me your ID”)”

  1. Ms. A Avatar

    It may not be fun to think about, but the reality is… it’s dangerous out there! I thought about you when I saw this on the news.

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  2. Suldog Avatar

    I had never given a single thought to how your profession might be dangerous. Never even occurred to me. Stay safe, Barbara.

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  3. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    It is so sad, but I hope it becomes a catalyst for change in the way we do things… or at least convinces our clients and the public of our need to change it.
     

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  4. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    It was heavy on my mind when I was first considering this career, but many friends were happy to share their safety tips with me. The trick is to follow them when you're feeling overwhelmed and rushed, which is quite often.  
     

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  5. lisa Avatar

    I just read about this, Barbara, and since you are the only realtor I “know,” I immediately thought about you.
    Please do be careful.

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  6. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    I promise I will be more concerned with safety and less with losing potential clients! Thank you for thinking of me, Lisa!
     

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  7. Gail Dixon Avatar

    I hope you share this post on FB. It is incredibly sad what happened to this beautiful woman. The times we live in today are so scary. Be safe out there!! I like the idea of texting the drivers license of the person you are meeting to office staff and/or family. I’d even go so far as to take their picture and their license plate too!

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  8. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Thanks, Gail. I did post it there, too. Getting a photo of their license plate is another great suggestion!
     

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  9. lisleman Avatar

    I had not heard of that realtor victim. Very sad and scary.
    I believe you have taken the first and most important step – being aware of the danger. I think the best protection is to be aware of the surroundings and situation. I recall many many years ago watching an Oprah show (yes I just admitted that I had watched Oprah on occasion) about protecting your self. She had a veteran cop on the show and I think the most important lesson was being aware of bad situations and not to allow an attacker to convince you to drive anywhere.
    Also, statistically I believe your amount of driving time is probably the most dangerous part of the job. Too many accidents. People are terrible of judging risks in our everyday lives.

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  10. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Being aware and taking precautions are definitely important, but I agree that the driving part is probably the most dangerous on a daily basis. Complacency kills!
     

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  11. Lady Fi Avatar

    What a terrible tragedy.

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  12. Hilary Avatar

    Barbara, I do worry about you and my friend who was also my agent for this move last November. There have been a few incident in my part of the world involving real estate agents. There are predators everywhere. And yet, you can’t just live your life in fear of some crazy mind. As far as some precautions are concerned. Maybe you could carry a sign with you.. to place in the doorway of each home you show which says something like the premises are under video surveillance. It would deter someone who might be considering foul play. I would be more than happy to design one with your realtor’s logo for you. All you’d have to do is print it and mount it to something like a strong cardboard base. Just a thought that might be worth considering.

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  13. Agnes Avatar

    Cameras make a lot of sense actually. Better safe than sorry.

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  14. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    I think so, too. I'm going to have to look into those. This was the first time I had heard of them being used, but I think it's a great idea, for many reasons!
     

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  15. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    I love that idea, Hilary. Thank you! It would be great for open houses. I avoid those, but do have to have them every once in awhile. I agree we can't live our lives in fear. We just need to keep our wits about us and be smart. Complacency is dangerous no matter what we're doing. 
     

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  16. Jennifer Richardson Avatar

    So so sad. It seems like the whole world is bent on putting us into a tailspin of fear. It’s so hard to do what we need to do in order to be safe and responsible and also live fearless lives. Hard to look at it and not panic. I think step by step, trust by trust, choice by choice, day by day is the only way to stay sane in the chaos that seems to be happening all over. Peace to you as you walk through the storms,
    Jennifer

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  17. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Thank you, Jennifer. Peace to you as you walk through your storms, as well. We can't avoid them and it if we fear them and let them alter our path, we miss out on so much joy!
     

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  18. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Yes, it was. I hope it serves as a wake-up call to our industry, and others that deal with the public like this, that we need to be more careful.
     

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