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Each morning since my old puppy Max passed away, Belle and I have ended our walk in the little cemetery where he, Charly, Chewy, Ruthie, and Frankie are all buried. It may seem like a bittersweet way to start the day, but I believe it has helped me, and maybe Belle, transition to life without him.

The cross above is actually the one marking Charly's grave. I need to find another one like it for Max.

I started the week determined to keep track of my sweet!s again. Although by Tuesday, I knew my heart was soon going to break, I was determined to keep making note of at least one sweet a day.

On the darkest days, it helps to remember the sun is still shining somewhere, right?

 

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Monday – an executed contract on one of your listings and finding a home for a family relocating from Illinois 

Tuesday – your husband's plumbing and construction skills

Wednesday – your daughter calling you as she's driving to school to tell you to go see the blood moon; your friends praying for your sweet old puppy

Thursday – being able to spend your puppy's last hours beside him, petting him and telling him you love him; a vet who will travel to your home so your puppy can transition in his own home, surrounded by his family

Friday – seeing old friends while passing out flyers to your church's Oktoberfest; crossing heavy items off of your to-do list

Saturday – sleeping late to the sound of rain outside your window; finally cleaning up piles of paperwork in your office

Sunday – hearing rain outside your window two mornings in a row; submitting an offer for a client; seeing a friend's grandbaby for the first time; Blue Bell's Spiced Pumpkin Pecan ice cream; your husband's safe arrival at his mom's for a visit

 

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I hope no matter what troubles or heartbreak you're experiencing, you're able to see the rays of sweet light shining in your darkness.

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4 responses to “Sweets and Sorrows”

  1. lisa Avatar

    I am so glad that you were able to find “sweets’ during such a tough week, Barbara.
    You are truly an inspiration, my friend.

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  2. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    I admit I do it out of selfish motives, but if it inspires someone else to see blessings they were overlooking, that's even better!
     

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  3. Hilary Avatar

    I do like and admire the way you find your sweets. It’s not always huge things but those little things that get the corners of our mouths turned up a time or two.
    I’m glad you got to see the blood moon. It was overcast here.

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  4. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    If my daughter hadn't called me, I would have missed it. I thought it was overcast here and wouldn't have even bothered going out to check! It made me feel good that she thought of me when she saw it and knew I'd want to see it. I think that was better than seeing it. 
     

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