Belle is snoring behind me, curled up on a purple and pink fringed blanket TG gave to her. The past couple of nights she's slept beside my bed on a small rug. She's getting better about sleeping through the night without waking me for attention. Just like a baby. 

I've never had a house dog before now. For one thing, I'm allergic to dogs, and it amazes me that I'm not a sniffling, wheezing mess right now. I haven't even taken an allergy pill.

Way back in the '70's, when I first brought my Siamese kitten home, I sneezed constantly for a week.  Then, like magic, I was fine. Maybe I built up a tolerance for Belle during those weeks she and Max lounged in the laundry room, out of the summer heat.

As much as I loved my cat (and miss having one) I have to admit that house dogs – especially country ones, used to being outside – are so much easier. No litter boxes to clean, for one thing. And when we leave, Belle just goes outside and guards the house from her bed on the porch until we return.

She follows me from room to room, and I'm really enjoying her company. It's eased that place in my heart that still misses my Max.

I dreamed of him two nights ago. He was lying beside me and I ran my hand through his long fur. It was a sweet dream, and having Belle near has been a calming, sweet comfort in a crazy-busy week which culminated in a crazy-busy, but fun, fun weekend.

Friday night I helped celebrate the anniversary of Waddle Auctioneers by dancing with friends to the music of  Groove Knight, an awesome band, in my friend Rachel's airplane hangar. It was bittersweet, though, since it was probably the very last party in that hangar. It's currently on the market.

(Know anyone who wants to buy an airplane hangar with a 5 bedroom home attached? You can catch some beautiful sunrises and sunsets!)

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Saturday I spent the day pouring beer for customers and taking photos at my church's annual Oktoberfest. A friend's son works at a local brewery – Live Oak – and they donated a keg to our cause. (Thank you, Live Oak Brewing Company!)

The weather was perfect, I saw tons of familiar faces, and we ended up raising a lot of money that will be given back to our community.  

Sunday turned out all different than originally planned, but I'm learning to be flexible and it turned into a wonderful day, as well.

I had registered to run 5K in the Run for the Water downtown. However, by this weekend the rest of the family made plans to be out of town, and I realized there wouldn't be anyone home to feed or walk Belle!

So instead of driving downtown to run 5K at 7 am, I slept until 7 am and then ran a mile with Belle at dawn.  I figured the Gazelle Foundation benefited from my entry fee and it didn't really matter where I ran.

All in all, it was a good week. My mom made it through surgery just fine, and even though she isn't getting the quality of care I expect at the moment, I'm grateful she's close enough that I can step in and raise a little, um, heck until it gets on track. 

(Don't mess with my mama!)

Here are some other sweet!s from the past week…

 

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Monday: pink clouds in the morning; a message from a potential new client waiting in your inbox when you wake up; your husband home safe and sound from his roadtrip; watching a family of cardinals have a bedtime snack at your feeder

Tuesday: catching up with friends and learning about personal safety at your office meeting; moving forward on a contract; a text from one of your mom's nurses, checking on her after a fall and ambulance ride to the hospital; being able to be by your mom's side when she's in great pain from a broken femur and facing surgery

Wednesday: good wishes, thoughts, and prayers from all over the world (thanks to Facebook!) for your mom as she undergoes surgery; laptops, smart phones, and wi-fi so you can work and stay in touch with loved ones while you wait; calls from potential new clients 

Thursday: cousins who visit your mom in the hospital; watching old movies with your mom; nurses who show special care for your mom

Friday: your mom making such great progress she's released from the hospital earlier than you expected; dancing with friends in a hangar to the awesome band Groove Knight

 

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Saturday: working with your son in a church festival booth; a visit from your oldest; being close enough to see your mom every day and be sure she's getting the care she needs

 

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Sunday: cutting yourself some slack by not trying to do everything; running at dawn with your puppy; watching an old, silly movie with your son; new real estate leads

Monday: waking to another new lead; hearing that your son and husband made it to their destination safe and sound; visiting your mom twice in one day; cheese popcorn; a dog snoring beside you as you work

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I hope you all had a great week and this next is even better!

 

Dogs are not our whole life, but they make our lives whole.

–Roger Caras

 

 

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18 responses to “House dogs, Hangar Parties, October(fests), and other sweet!s”

  1. Ms. A Avatar

    You are a busy lady, I don’t know how you keep up with yourself. Glad your Mom is doing well!

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  2. Agnes Avatar

    What a week you had Barbara. Congrats on raising the funds and so glad your mama’s surgery was a success!

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  3. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    I don't think I do keep up! I'm exhausted! πŸ™‚
     

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  4. Hilary Avatar

    I’m glad your mother is on the mend. And I suspect that you can raise a LOT of hell when you need to. πŸ˜‰

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  5. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Yes, but it's a gift I only use when absolutely necessary. πŸ™‚
     

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  6. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Thank you, Agnes!
     

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  7. lisleman Avatar

    Good to know you cut yourself some slack by not trying to do everything. I do believe too many people often bring stress on needlessly. Wishing your mom a quick recovery.

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  8. lisa Avatar

    You certainly have some full weeks, Barbara, but it sounds like it was all good! πŸ™‚
    Have another sweet week ahead!

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  9. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Thank you, Lisa! Wishing you the same!
     

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  10. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    I'm finally learning to be kind to myself! Thank you for thinking of my mom. πŸ™‚
     

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  11. Gail Dixon Avatar

    I’m glad you have Belle to comfort you. I’ve got three little followers in my house who sometimes get underfoot, but I never complain. Because I know their days with me are too short. Hope your mom is doing better!

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  12. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    She's almost tripped me up on the stairs trying to pass me, but otherwise she's a pretty good shadow, and I ignore the dog hair on the floor for the same reason you don't complain about yours. πŸ™‚
     

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  13. Lady Fi Avatar

    Gorgeous sky shots! I can’t imagine not having a dog in the house…

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  14. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    After having her in the house so much lately, I can't imagine it, either!
     

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  15. Wolf Pascoe Avatar

    I think Belle might need a new puppy.

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  16. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    There's no way I can convince Tom to have two dogs in the house, and I think Belle prefers being a house dog to having a puppy! But… I've said "never" before, and yet we still have a dog. πŸ™‚
     

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  17. Jennifer Richardson Avatar

    My heart is so warmed by your sweet Belle as she snuggles closer in your mutual missing; you’re such a good woman, Barbara:) I love your Max dream.
    And your life is so rich and meaningful even in pain and damage
    and the messy stuff. You ride the waves so well.
    I enjoy sharing the road with you; thank you.
    -Jennifer

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  18. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Thank you, sweet Jennifer. All of that can be said about you, for sure. You're an inspiration to so many! Thank you!
     

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