This evening my family commandeered the sunroom where my mom lives to celebrate her 83rd birthday a few days early. It was the only day we could all be together, but besides that, when you're turning 83, you really should start celebrating early, don't you think?

 

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I know Mama loves being with all of my kids, but I also know that if her birthday wish had come true, we would have been sharing fajitas, chocolate cake, and stories around our old kitchen table in our house in Deepwater, and Daddy would have been there with us, too… in body, not just in spirit.  

When you live long enough, there's often bitter mixed with the sweet.

But I think it's important to focus on the sweet, which for me was having my husband, my mom, every one of my kids, and even my grandpuppy Josie all together this evening. That doesn't happen often enough these days.

Here are some other sweet!s from the past week…

 

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Monday: morning skies; working out for the first time in a week; the arrival of your new boots in the mail

Tuesday: catching up with a friend while on a property tour through the Texas hill country; the tug on your heart when you see the final resting spot of some beloved pets nestled under a tree; the freedom to vote, and standing in a line to exercise that right

 

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Wednesday: walking in the rain with your puppy, the sound of raindrops on your umbrella your soundtrack; new clients; winning a gift card to Panera Bread

Thursday: customer service people who truly care about customer service; a husband who knows how to find great deals on Craig's List… in particular treadmills and ellipticals so you don't have to run on your caliche road

 

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Friday: the return of sunshine to your Hollow; trees dressed in their autumn colors; finishing something you've wanted to do all week; not having to wear huge bandaids on your elbows anymore

 

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Saturday: discovering a living jewel crawling on your road; baby showers; watching a movie with your mom; an overdue get-together with friends

 

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Sunday: a walk through the woods with your puppy before Mass; talking real estate with Realtor friends; celebrating your mom's birthday early with all of your kids and your grandpuppy

 

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 Hundreds of dewdrops to greet the dawn,
Hundreds of bees in the purple clover,
Hundreds of butterflies on the lawn,
But only one mother the wide world over.
~George Cooper

 

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What were the sweet moments of your past week? Please share them in the comments. I hope you have twice as many in the coming week!

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8 responses to “Party Girl”

  1. Ms. A Avatar

    Happy Birthday to your Mom!!!

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  2. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Thank you! I'll tell her!
     

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  3. Lady Fi Avatar

    What a sweet photo of you and your mum! And that cake looks amazing.

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  4. Wolf Pascoe Avatar

    Oh, that cake. Looks too beautiful to eat, but I bet you did!

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  5. lisleman Avatar

    “live long enough, there’s often bitter mixed with the sweet” – wise words I’m going to try to remember. A big happy birthday to your mom.

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  6. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Thank you, Bill! And thanks again for your service to our country!
     

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  7. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Oh, yes we did! i think there's one piece left…
     

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  8. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    It was way too yummy! I'm glad I had plenty of mouths to share it with me.
     

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