The pitter-patter of tiny feet woke me early on Christmas morning, but it wasn't the sound of excited little children as on Christmas mornings long ago. It was Belle, letting me know she was ready to go outside. 

I granted her request, then crawled back into bed. That's one good thing about Christmas mornings when the kids are grown – you get to sleep in if you want to.

Another is that they are old enough to fix you bacon and eggs for breakfast, like Daniel did for us. 

But our celebration began on Christmas Eve with the Children's Mass. There's nothing like seeing little ones all dressed up in their fancy holiday outfits and a group of them acting out the Christmas pageant to fill you with Christmas spirit. So cute!

I spent the rest of that evening baking cookies while watching "It's a Wonderful Life". I think it's my favorite Christmas movie of all, because of its message of hope and faith and friendship, and the beauty of the simple things in life, period.  

Christmas day itself was slow and relaxing. Sleeping late … a walk with Belle … that huge breakfast, courtesy of Daniel … phone calls and texts from loved ones and friends … last minute gift wrapping … catching bits and pieces of a Shirley Temple movie marathon.. 

Late in the afternoon my oldest and his wife met us at Mama's nursing home, where we all squeezed into her little room to share cookies, visit, and open a few gifts.

Back home a couple of hours later, we shared a not-so-traditional fajita dinner, opened more gifts, and then ended the day stretched out around the television watching "A Christmas Story" – the "you'll shoot your eye out" one. 

I wish so much that Mama could have joined us for dinner at our house. However, mid-week a chest X-ray confirmed she had pneumonia. They caught it early and started antibiotics, but she's still weak and has a bad cough. Please continue to pray for her – and thank you in advance.

Today I followed through on a promise by watching "Elf" with her. She and her roommate loved it.

I hope no matter what else is going on in your life, you've experienced some joy and laughter during the holidays, too. 

 

May you have the gladness of Christmas which is hope;
The spirit of Christmas which is peace;
The heart of Christmas which is love.
~Ada V. Hendricks 

 

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10 responses to “Merry Christmas, when the kids are grown…”

  1. Ms. A Avatar

    Hope your Mom is on the mend!

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  2. lisleman Avatar

    We did the same TV movie watching. Christmas Day evening we play a great game of scrabble and drank too much wine.
    All the best for your mom’s recovery.

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  3. Lady Fi Avatar

    Sounds like a fabulous way to spend Christmas. So sorry to hear about your mum. I know what that’s like. My dad is still in hospital so it was the first time for my family (in the UK) not to have him there for Christmas dinner.

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  4. Tabor Avatar

    Hard to spend the holidays in the hospital, but many do. She will be better by New Years Day I am sure!

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  5. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Thank goodness she's not actually in the hospital. They've been able to treat her pneumonia at the nursing home. But I did hope she'd be well enough to come to our house to celebrate Christmas. I do hope she's well enough by New Year's!
     

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  6. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    I hate to hear your dad is still in the hospital! I hope he is able to go home, soon. In my prayers!
     

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  7. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Scrabble and wine. Now that sounds like a fun combination!!
     

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  8. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Thank you! She doesn't seem much better to me, but it could just be that the pneumonia zapped her strength. I hope that's all it is!
     

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  9. Hilary Avatar

    I sure hope your sweet mother is doing better by now. I love that you watched Elf with her. I saw it for the first time, this year. Post Christmas hugs to you, Barbara.

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  10. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Thank you, Hilary! Sending big hugs back to you! xoxo
     

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