Wednesday afternoon a friend and her husband braved our dirt road to deliver a huge bag of Christmas goodies to my family. They do this every year. Seriously, they're crazy!

They give each of us something and there are always lots of cookies and other treats. We've just learned to accept the gifts with gratitude. 

But this year, my friend went overboard. Besides a couple of cute Texas ornaments, she gave me a ticket to see Frankie Valli and the Four Seasons in February! I'm pretty sure she has one for herself and that two other friends received them, as well, because last year she treated us to a Harry Connick Jr. concert! 

Crazy friends are the best, aren't they?

(I really have to figure out a way to repay her. Any ideas? She's nuts about Matthew McConaughey and Josh Groban.)

I was able to be on the other side of a Christmas surprise this year, too. A friend's kids wanted to surprise their parents with portraits of themselves, and approached me about taking the photos.

So last month we spent a few hours at a beautiful wedding venue near my house snapping photos. (Thank you, Lynn, at Villa Antonia!) This friend always coordinates our annual Port Aransas trips – no easy feat! So I was happy for the chance to do something for her.

Now that the surprise is over, I can reveal the photos. I'll post the rest on my photography blog, but here's one of them…

 

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Aren't these kids gorgeous? They are so photogenic, it was an easy job!

Here are some other sweet!s from the past week…

 

Monday: nurses who are proactive about treating your mom's cough; seeing one of the 'kids' you've watched grow up and meeting her husband; one of your son's student loans being forgiven; a gorgeous sunset when you leave the grocery store

 

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Tuesday: prayers for your mom when she's diagnosed with pneumonia; Christmas partying with your mom at her nursing home, including a visit from Santa and gifts from the staff to the residents

Wednesday: children performing the Christmas pageant; watching "It's a Wonderful Life" while baking cookies; Mucinex, so you can sleep without coughing when the cedar pollen count tops 3000

Thursday: sleeping in; breakfast, courtesy of your son; Shirley Temple movies; a phone visit with your mother-in-law, goddaughter, and other friends and relatives; celebrating Christmas with your mom, husband, and kids; a ticket from a friend to see Frankie Valli and the Four Seasons in February; watching a movie with all of your kids for the first time in ages

 

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Friday: introducing your mom and her roommate to the movie "Elf"; time to catch up with friends on Facebook; yellow wildflowers still blooming in December

 

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Saturday: sleeping in three days in a row; finally straightening up your laundry room, like you've been wanting to do for months; physical therapists who are willing to give your mom a second chance

Sunday: a cousin who visits your mom, bearing Christmas gifts, and getting to see her when you visit your mom; making someone's day by finding their lost glasses; helping yourself and someone else by weeding out stuff to give to Goodwill; sunlight-woven gold on a late afternoon walk through the woods

 

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Even when there are plenty of sweet! moments, the holidays aren't protected from sadness. A classmate's mother passed away earlier this week and a dear friend's sister lost her battle with cancer today. Please keep them and others who are suffering in your prayers, that they may still find something sweet in these days. 

 

Christmas — that magic blanket that wraps itself about us, that something so intangible that it is like a fragrance. It may weave a spell of nostalgia. Christmas may be a day of feasting, or of prayer, but always it will be a day of remembrance — a day in which we think of everything we have ever loved.

~Augusta E. Rundel

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15 responses to “Surprise! and other Christmas sweet!s”

  1. Ms. A Avatar

    So sorry for the losses. Losing someone is terrible, losing them around Christmas is even worse.

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  2. Tabor Avatar

    Regarding friends who bring gifts, you are doing the right thing in accepting them with grace. Give them time with you. That is what they want.

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  3. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Giving Christmas gifts truly brings her joy – she gathers them and plans all year long. But it's not something she feels she has to do, therefore she loves it. Fortunately she realizes other people aren't wired the same way but that it doesn't mean we don't care. We're just not in her league!
     

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  4. Lady Fi Avatar

    What lovely shots! Hope your mum is feeling better!

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  5. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Thank you! She is. I hope your dad is feeling better, too!
     

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  6. Charlotte Dixon Avatar

    Nothing better than watching Elf. I love that movie!

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  7. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    It's so sweet and silly. Definitely one of my favorites!
     

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  8. lisleman Avatar

    Lots of blue eyes in that group.
    Student loan being forgiven – great was that some type of work they did/doing?
    Frankie Valli & The Four Seasons – Oh What a Night – your concert and that one back in late December, 1963

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  9. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Yes, vivid blue eyes! Their parents look just like them, too. They should win an award as most photogenic family. The loan forgiveness was a total surprise. I'm not sure what triggered it! 
     

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  10. Suldog Avatar

    My goodness. I was going to ask if their eyes are really that blue, but you just answered that. Very nice shot.
    Here’s to a Very Happy New Year for you and yours!

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  11. Tabor Avatar

    Such good looking people…just a little jealous, but can tell from their smiles that they are nice on the inside as well.

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  12. Jennifer Richardson Avatar

    I LOVE your friends, the crazy-givers:)
    I want to be like that. That’s what I’m going to grow up to be:)
    And grateful alongside of you for all the brights and sweets
    in these sometimes hard times.
    Glad for your mom’s recovery and refreshing.
    love and prayers and cool runnings,
    Jennifer

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  13. Hilary Avatar

    The beautiful blue eyes jumped out at me too. Stunning faces. I love the photo of what I assume is someone holding your mother’s hand while reading her a text.. and the other person petting the sweet dog in the Christmas sweater. That’s just all kinds of precious in that photo.
    Happy New Years to you and your wonderful family, Barbara.

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  14. Pauline Avatar

    This is where I come for my sweet fix.

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