I was headed to Houston last Saturday … dreading the drive, the task ahead of me, and a whole day away from my business which I really can't afford at this time … when I spotted a Panda Express.  I decided to cheer myself up with an early lunch. 

It was delicious, of course, but the best part was this message tucked into my fortune cookie…

 

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Have you ever received a big hug from a friend just when you needed it? That's how I felt when I read that tiny little piece of paper.

Those words lifted me above the sadness of the task and helped me see it instead as a chance to revisit a lifetime of happy memories. The long drive, the physical labor, the sweat and tears all became acts of love,  a way to give back to my parents and grandmother and siblings and children… all of us who knew the abundance of love and laughter in that house. 

Words can be so powerful, can't they? 

These words will ride with me again tomorrow, and the next Saturday, and the next… however many it takes to sort through sixty years … trying to decide what to keep, what to give, what to sell, and what to toss. 

I'm grateful for my sister who will be beside me in the process, adding more precious memories to tuck away in my heart as we prepare to say goodbye and thank you to the humble home that sheltered our childhood. 

 

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8 responses to “Silent Love and Friendship”

  1. Ms. A Avatar

    I hope my kids feel that way, when the time comes. There certainly are a lot of memories stored in this house.

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  2. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Mine, too, and this process has helped me realize I need to get started on my own massive collections of STUFF very, very soon!
     
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  3. Jennifer Richardson Avatar

    So beautiful, that:)
    I appreciate that you had eyes and heart to see the smile
    of heaven shining through those words:)
    They make a difference, words.
    I love that about them.
    Much love and grace and tenderness to you
    in this stretchy season of life,
    Jennifer

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  4. wolf pascoe Avatar

    Glad this is something you can do with your sister. Don’t forget to take some pictures.

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  5. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Thank you for the reminder, Wolf. I actually had the presence of mind to take one yesterday, of the doorframe where they marked the heights of their grandkids. (Our height progress was painted over so they could start over. Grandkids trump kids yet again.)
     

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  6. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    "Stretchy season" is a great term for it. I will stretch and bend and not break. Thank you, Jennifer!
     

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  7. Suldog Avatar

    I imagine it helps quite a bit to have someone to share the sorting, etc., and to be there with when one or both laugh or cry. Being of the only child variety, I was alone sorting through My Dad’s stuff (MY WIFE, who would have gladly helped, had to work.) It was rough. No one to laugh with, no one to comfort me when crying…

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  8. Barbara Shallue Avatar

    Jim, that had to be emotionally gut-wrenching. I'm so sorry! 
     

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